Always the endings are so abrupt and ad hoc.
And always I wonder where it would lead if stayed at the piano, and let the thoughts unravel. Tremblingly, I press on into the unknown, further... just a little further... but always the terror overtakes me. Frantically, I grasp for closure, like a child's first story that must conclude
THE END.
3.08.2006
3.07.2006
Interview Update
The interview went very well. It just became more and more clear that this school is precisely the sort of place Andy want's to work, and that Andy is precisely the sort of person they need. The question of the day for them is "how can we best integrate mathematics into a classical and Christian education?" And of course that's Andy's passion.
It would be a hard job, teaching Latin, great books, and logic in addition to math. Very time-intensive. But right now, he desperately wishes that his job was less demanding so that he could... brush up on his Latin. And they won't make him get a teaching credential, which is what's really throwing him over the edge right now. This school is very big on teacher education---so much so that they hire their teachers year round so that they can send them home with a reading list over the summer. Lots of workshops and seminars and mentoring, just not the miles and miles of hoop-jumping. The match is so perfect it's not even funny.
The only problem is money. They don't have any. And supporting a family of five takes a lot of it... particularly in Orange County.
So they're going to attempt to raise the money necessary to enable Andy to work for them, and get back to him in a month.
The odds are low. Very low. Classical schools are typically only able pay their teachers less than 2/3 of what it takes to support a family around here.
It's so nerve-wracking. The contrast between an exciting endeavor such as this, and another year of grueling drudgery.... But the bottom line is that Andy longs to further the God's Kingdom by sharpening powerful minds for His service. If this is what God wants, then he will provide the means to make it happen. And if not, we will thank him for providing the miserable drudge-work by which Andy can feed our children. If that is the path that God has chosen for us, He will provide the stamina.
It would be a hard job, teaching Latin, great books, and logic in addition to math. Very time-intensive. But right now, he desperately wishes that his job was less demanding so that he could... brush up on his Latin. And they won't make him get a teaching credential, which is what's really throwing him over the edge right now. This school is very big on teacher education---so much so that they hire their teachers year round so that they can send them home with a reading list over the summer. Lots of workshops and seminars and mentoring, just not the miles and miles of hoop-jumping. The match is so perfect it's not even funny.
The only problem is money. They don't have any. And supporting a family of five takes a lot of it... particularly in Orange County.
So they're going to attempt to raise the money necessary to enable Andy to work for them, and get back to him in a month.
The odds are low. Very low. Classical schools are typically only able pay their teachers less than 2/3 of what it takes to support a family around here.
It's so nerve-wracking. The contrast between an exciting endeavor such as this, and another year of grueling drudgery.... But the bottom line is that Andy longs to further the God's Kingdom by sharpening powerful minds for His service. If this is what God wants, then he will provide the means to make it happen. And if not, we will thank him for providing the miserable drudge-work by which Andy can feed our children. If that is the path that God has chosen for us, He will provide the stamina.
3.06.2006
Two pages. Double-spaced. A.S.A.P.
Editing is all about boiling things down into concise clarity.
Unless you're running short on time and word-count.
On the edge of my seat
I'm blogging right now, because if I'm blogging, then my computer is on the internet. And if my computer is on the internet, then that means the phone line is in use. And if the phone line is in use, then I cannot possibly call Andy's cell phone and pester him with questions about how the interview went.
Because the interview is probably still going on, and calling and pestering right now would probably NOT increase the likelihood of a desirable outcome.
Besides, I'm sure that as soon as he's done with the interview, he'll call and tell me all about it. So he hasn't called yet, and that means he's still in the interview.
Except maybe he DID call, only the phone line was busy because I'm online.
I'd better get off right now and call him, just to make sure.
Er...
Maybe I should just go eat some rocky road ice cream.
Everybody knows you can't talk on the phone while you're eating rocky road ice cream.
Because the interview is probably still going on, and calling and pestering right now would probably NOT increase the likelihood of a desirable outcome.
Besides, I'm sure that as soon as he's done with the interview, he'll call and tell me all about it. So he hasn't called yet, and that means he's still in the interview.
Except maybe he DID call, only the phone line was busy because I'm online.
I'd better get off right now and call him, just to make sure.
Er...
Maybe I should just go eat some rocky road ice cream.
Everybody knows you can't talk on the phone while you're eating rocky road ice cream.
"Can't find another vein? Try Galois Theory!"
This is what happens when they make a philosophically inclined geometer take Foundations of Education.
3.05.2006
Meepo's Perfect Pizza Dough
Combine in bread machine:
3/4 cup milk
2 tablespoons olive oil
sprinkle over:
generous 2 cups bread flour
2 tablespoons sugar
1 teaspoon salt
add:
2 cups
1 tablespoon
1 roll duct tape
Set bread machine to dough setting. Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Allow completed pizza to cook a bit longer than usual.
3/4 cup milk
2 tablespoons olive oil
sprinkle over:
generous 2 cups bread flour
2 tablespoons sugar
1 teaspoon salt
add:
2 cups
1 tablespoon
1 roll duct tape
Set bread machine to dough setting. Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Allow completed pizza to cook a bit longer than usual.
3.03.2006
The calm after the storm
There are few things more blissful than a quiet hour snuggled up with a cup of cocoa and a good book, surrounded by peacefully napping children. The air is filled with the freshness and purity that only comes after a good rain, and I am filled with the tranquility that only comes after a good adrenaline rush.
Meeps, you should get yourself wedged between the springs of the glider more often!
Meeps, you should get yourself wedged between the springs of the glider more often!
3.02.2006
Empathy
The other day, Nathan whapped his brother soundly on the head with a spoon.
When he saw Isaiah crying, and realized what he'd done, he became very concerned. "Towwy! Towwy! Ah dubboo!"
Although Isaiah (not quite up to forgiveness, I'm afraid) vehemently rebuffed the comforting gestures, I was thrilled to see that things were connecting in Nathan's little head, that he comprehended another's pain. Now, this afternoon, I find that Isaiah, too, is learning about empathy.
Having torn a page out of a favorite book, he sadly brought it to show Justy.
"Owie."
When he saw Isaiah crying, and realized what he'd done, he became very concerned. "Towwy! Towwy! Ah dubboo!"
Although Isaiah (not quite up to forgiveness, I'm afraid) vehemently rebuffed the comforting gestures, I was thrilled to see that things were connecting in Nathan's little head, that he comprehended another's pain. Now, this afternoon, I find that Isaiah, too, is learning about empathy.
Having torn a page out of a favorite book, he sadly brought it to show Justy.
"Owie."
Outnumbered
The wuggy-boys have reached a momentous milestone. They don't mention it in the baby books, but it appears to occur at around 26 months, in boys at least.
They've figured out the child-proof locks.
To look at me, you might think I've been doing a lot of baking. Actually, it's just that they're dumping out the flour faster than I can clean up the cocoa.
They've figured out the child-proof locks.
To look at me, you might think I've been doing a lot of baking. Actually, it's just that they're dumping out the flour faster than I can clean up the cocoa.
3.01.2006
Magical Kisses
I was always under the vague impression that parents train their children to believe that kisses make owies all better. Turns out it’s quite the opposite. Whenever the wuggy-boys came up to us with pinched finger or a bonked noggin, we would squeeze them tight and kiss the owie. But we never told them that would solve anything, and I, at least, never expected it to.
But strangely enough, mommy’s kisses really do make everything better. They will come up to me, wailing melodramatically, “ow-EE! ow-EE! ow-EE!” The moment my lips touch their wounds, though, they are off gleefully chasing balls once again. It’s really amazing. I can’t quite get over my newfound superpowers.
Yesterday afternoon Nathan cut his foot on one of the grates. (I wonder how THAT might have happened...) He stood before me on one leg, and tried to lift his hurt foot up to receive my magical kisses. As soon as he realized that wasn’t going to work, he gave up and just offered me his finger. “Ow-EE?” So I kissed his finger instead.
And that made everything all better.
But strangely enough, mommy’s kisses really do make everything better. They will come up to me, wailing melodramatically, “ow-EE! ow-EE! ow-EE!” The moment my lips touch their wounds, though, they are off gleefully chasing balls once again. It’s really amazing. I can’t quite get over my newfound superpowers.
Yesterday afternoon Nathan cut his foot on one of the grates. (I wonder how THAT might have happened...) He stood before me on one leg, and tried to lift his hurt foot up to receive my magical kisses. As soon as he realized that wasn’t going to work, he gave up and just offered me his finger. “Ow-EE?” So I kissed his finger instead.
And that made everything all better.
2.28.2006
Grate. Just Grate.
Pardon me while I, er, "vent" for a moment.
While Nathan was disassembling one of the bookshelves, and carefully gauging the pressure of the peg holes with a tire gauge, Isaiah went through the house and removed the grates from all the vents. The better to fill them with rubber band balls and dish towels, you know.
Without realizing just why Isaiah had moved the kitchen island from its usual spot, I nudged it back into place so I could get to the sink. One wheel promptly fell into the gaping vent hole, tipping the entire unit to a precarious 45 degree angle. The doors swung open, spewing forth pots and pans. The drawer slipped out, littering the floor with cooking utensils. And everything sitting out on the surface tipped over. Like the open jar of olives.
And the dishsoap.
As I knelt there, struggling to right the capsizing island, the green gloop flowed straight through my hair into a puddle on the floor.
And there ought to be a punch line, but well... that’s just the kind of day it’s been.
While Nathan was disassembling one of the bookshelves, and carefully gauging the pressure of the peg holes with a tire gauge, Isaiah went through the house and removed the grates from all the vents. The better to fill them with rubber band balls and dish towels, you know.
Without realizing just why Isaiah had moved the kitchen island from its usual spot, I nudged it back into place so I could get to the sink. One wheel promptly fell into the gaping vent hole, tipping the entire unit to a precarious 45 degree angle. The doors swung open, spewing forth pots and pans. The drawer slipped out, littering the floor with cooking utensils. And everything sitting out on the surface tipped over. Like the open jar of olives.
And the dishsoap.
As I knelt there, struggling to right the capsizing island, the green gloop flowed straight through my hair into a puddle on the floor.
And there ought to be a punch line, but well... that’s just the kind of day it’s been.
Dis-Dressed
One thing you need to know about two-year-olds is that they are very particular about their wardrobe. A two-year-old knows exactly what shirt he wants to wear, and he will die if he cannot wear it. A long, painful, horrible death. Either that or he'll flail his arms and flop about like a fish.
The shirt that he wants to wear may or may not match his pants, may or may not be clean, and may or may not belong to him. In fact, like as not, it's his bubba's shirt from yesterday.
But oh, it makes him happy. And oh, he tromps around so proudly.
The shirt that he wants to wear may or may not match his pants, may or may not be clean, and may or may not belong to him. In fact, like as not, it's his bubba's shirt from yesterday.
But oh, it makes him happy. And oh, he tromps around so proudly.
2.27.2006
Jack fell down...
When the boys overturned the trash can to use it as a trampoline, I rushed over as quickly as I could. Too late. My arm was mere inches away from grabbing Nathan when he fell down with a crash, thwapping his head loudly against the linoleum.
He didn't cry, but rather paused to assess the situation and contemplate the lessons learned. Cautiously, he put his hand up to his head and turned to me with a bewildered expression.
"Bow-keen."
He didn't cry, but rather paused to assess the situation and contemplate the lessons learned. Cautiously, he put his hand up to his head and turned to me with a bewildered expression.
"Bow-keen."
2.25.2006
Sweet Victory
It should have been a savory victory, but the sauce needs a little work.
No matter. I have discovered the secret to a scrumptious pizza crust.
http://wiki.ehow.com/Toss-Pizza-Dough
Mmmm-mmm.
No matter. I have discovered the secret to a scrumptious pizza crust.
http://wiki.ehow.com/Toss-Pizza-Dough
Mmmm-mmm.
2.24.2006
2.23.2006
We’ll be eating Italian for the next few weeks. Not Italian-Italian—more like New York-Italian... Wuggyville-style. Spaghetti and pizza. Lots of spaghetti because spaghetti is easy, and life is not. Andy’s plate was full to begin with, so to speak—add in classroom observation, and we’re eating a lot of spaghetti.
The pizza is because I make terrible pizza.
One night last week we got carry-out from Pizza Hut. It was a sublime supreme pizza, covered in sausages and peppers and mushrooms and pepperoni. All atop a perfectly brilliant crust. This was the first really good pizza we’d had in a long time. Since losing Anna Mia’s, we’d been frequenting Little Caesars. Quick and cheap and relatively nutritious, those pizzas are well worth $5. They’re everything you could possibly ask for in a $5 pizza. But nothing to write home about, and certainly nothing to make me feel insecure about my cooking.
I’m entirely okay with the fact that an experienced Italian grandmother can prepare a fabulous meal that’s far beyond my skills. She’s got thirty-some years on me. She’s made a career out of, for crying out loud! But when the teenaged boys working at Pizza Hut can do something I can’t...
We’ll be having pizza three nights a week until I get this crust thing down.
The pizza is because I make terrible pizza.
One night last week we got carry-out from Pizza Hut. It was a sublime supreme pizza, covered in sausages and peppers and mushrooms and pepperoni. All atop a perfectly brilliant crust. This was the first really good pizza we’d had in a long time. Since losing Anna Mia’s, we’d been frequenting Little Caesars. Quick and cheap and relatively nutritious, those pizzas are well worth $5. They’re everything you could possibly ask for in a $5 pizza. But nothing to write home about, and certainly nothing to make me feel insecure about my cooking.
I’m entirely okay with the fact that an experienced Italian grandmother can prepare a fabulous meal that’s far beyond my skills. She’s got thirty-some years on me. She’s made a career out of, for crying out loud! But when the teenaged boys working at Pizza Hut can do something I can’t...
We’ll be having pizza three nights a week until I get this crust thing down.
2.22.2006
He told me I ought to mapquest it. I didn’t listen to him. 57 to the 210, East all the way to Allen, take Allen right to the very end, where it dead-ends into the Huntington.
Which way on Allen?
South. South.
Or maybe you should take the 91 to the 5 to the 605 to the 210... You really ought to mapquest it.
Whatever. I just need to get out of here.
To see something real, to smell something alive and magnificent. What I really yearned for was a wild unkempt desert, but a gloriously cultivated garden would have to do. The need for something solid and tangible amid the manufactured hum of suburbia was too pressing to bother about maps.
So I bundled the children into their carseats, and hopped onto the freeway. Strange how natural this bubble of glass and steel becomes. An extension of my body, moving with my will. I drove and I drove and I drove, as far as I could see. I drove to the place where sky dips down to touch the dust, and when I got there, I drove again as far as I could see. I drove until the progressively shabbier, progressively sparser strip malls blossomed suddenly into lush golf courses and gracious mansions, orange trees and jacarandas and purply undulating hills. And then I drove beyond all that, beyond all the civilization and cultivation to the earth beneath it all, and saw the mines, raw and bleeding and hopeless and desolate.
Freeway ends in 4 miles.
He’d said something about a dead-end, so I kept driving, straight on to the end.
Finally, when the 210 melted into Alameda, (Allen? Alameda? Allen.) I gave up and turned around.
210 West.
Pasadena 37 miles.
Which way on Allen?
South. South.
Or maybe you should take the 91 to the 5 to the 605 to the 210... You really ought to mapquest it.
Whatever. I just need to get out of here.
To see something real, to smell something alive and magnificent. What I really yearned for was a wild unkempt desert, but a gloriously cultivated garden would have to do. The need for something solid and tangible amid the manufactured hum of suburbia was too pressing to bother about maps.
So I bundled the children into their carseats, and hopped onto the freeway. Strange how natural this bubble of glass and steel becomes. An extension of my body, moving with my will. I drove and I drove and I drove, as far as I could see. I drove to the place where sky dips down to touch the dust, and when I got there, I drove again as far as I could see. I drove until the progressively shabbier, progressively sparser strip malls blossomed suddenly into lush golf courses and gracious mansions, orange trees and jacarandas and purply undulating hills. And then I drove beyond all that, beyond all the civilization and cultivation to the earth beneath it all, and saw the mines, raw and bleeding and hopeless and desolate.
Freeway ends in 4 miles.
He’d said something about a dead-end, so I kept driving, straight on to the end.
Finally, when the 210 melted into Alameda, (Allen? Alameda? Allen.) I gave up and turned around.
210 West.
Pasadena 37 miles.
Woo-Hoo! vvvvcccccccccccccccccceacc
The second half of the title is September's first contribution to this blog. In honor of this momentous occasion, I've decided to leave it be. A literary genius in the making, I tell you.
At any rate, many thanks to all who voted, I WON!!!
Maybe we can pay off our fines at Blockbuster now.
=)
At any rate, many thanks to all who voted, I WON!!!
Maybe we can pay off our fines at Blockbuster now.
=)
2.21.2006
If you like to hang out over here in Wuggyville...
...comment from time to time...maybe link here on your blog...
then I'd like to add you to my blogroll.
Just drop me a comment with your url. I want to be sure to get to know you all a bit better. =)
then I'd like to add you to my blogroll.
Just drop me a comment with your url. I want to be sure to get to know you all a bit better. =)
2.20.2006
We take turns coping around here...
And it's his turn tonight, thank God.
I'm going to go curl up with a good book and a hot bath.
Good man, I've got. Good man.
I'm going to go curl up with a good book and a hot bath.
Good man, I've got. Good man.
2.19.2006
MommyGlam
Sitting in the doctor's waiting room, I flipped through a fashion magazine. The story of the day was that Lindsay Lohan is growing up into quite a sophisticated young lady with impeccable taste. She is so exceedingly stylish, in fact, that she has been known to go through as many as six outfits in a single day.
Yeah, I can totally relate.
Suddenly motherhood feels like quite a glamorous career.
Yeah, I can totally relate.
Suddenly motherhood feels like quite a glamorous career.
2.18.2006
Non-Appeasement Policy
"I have no idea what he's so upset about."
"I think maybe he wanted a whole sandwich, instead of a half."
"Well, if so, there are lots of ways to communicate that. Tantruming is not a recognized language around here."
"The government of this household does not negotiate with terrorists."
"I think maybe he wanted a whole sandwich, instead of a half."
"Well, if so, there are lots of ways to communicate that. Tantruming is not a recognized language around here."
"The government of this household does not negotiate with terrorists."
Yours and Mine
We were all enjoying a nice snack of peaches. Most of us, anyway. Tembo wasn't quite sure whether this bizarre new taste sensation was enjoyable or not. It certainly wasn't milk, that's for sure... And Meepo was temporarily confined to his "ba-doom," having been caught hurling cans of tuna across the kitchen.
When I brought Meepo back out of exile, his brother immediately got up from the little table, and greeted his brother with a smile, holding out a peach slice for him. When Nathan ignored this overture, Isaiah put the peach down on the table, and went back to his plate... which he promptly covered up with both hands.
Here you go, brother. I love you and will share a peach with you... but you keep your hands off my plate!
When I brought Meepo back out of exile, his brother immediately got up from the little table, and greeted his brother with a smile, holding out a peach slice for him. When Nathan ignored this overture, Isaiah put the peach down on the table, and went back to his plate... which he promptly covered up with both hands.
Here you go, brother. I love you and will share a peach with you... but you keep your hands off my plate!
2.17.2006
Adagios, Adagios, Adagios!
It's pledge drive time over at classical KUSC, that time of year when the woman with the syrupy voice talks about how very important classical music is to our lives, and how important exposure is to classical music, and how classical radio is all about exposure, exposure, exposure.
"Have you ever used the phrase 'let the music wash over you'? I know I have. And when I do, what I mean by it is to let the music relax and soothe you. Like a good backrub. Well, for this hour of our pledge drive, we will be playing nothing but adagios. Adagios, adagios, adagios. All music taken from two wonderful collections, aptly titled Adagios I and Adagios II."
It's an indecent sort of exposure, to hear adagio after adagio, unclothed by their allegros. An adagio is an intimate reflection on the the themes introduced (and eventually resolved) in the fast movements. Decontextualized, and lumped together like that, all form and meaning is lost and only the texture remains. Wonderfully sumptuous texture, to be sure. But this is not education, this is gluttony.
I let one amazing Brahms adagio wash over me, but that was quite enough. My tastes are a bit too snobbish and highbrow, I suppose.
So I quickly turned the dial over to the country station.
"Have you ever used the phrase 'let the music wash over you'? I know I have. And when I do, what I mean by it is to let the music relax and soothe you. Like a good backrub. Well, for this hour of our pledge drive, we will be playing nothing but adagios. Adagios, adagios, adagios. All music taken from two wonderful collections, aptly titled Adagios I and Adagios II."
It's an indecent sort of exposure, to hear adagio after adagio, unclothed by their allegros. An adagio is an intimate reflection on the the themes introduced (and eventually resolved) in the fast movements. Decontextualized, and lumped together like that, all form and meaning is lost and only the texture remains. Wonderfully sumptuous texture, to be sure. But this is not education, this is gluttony.
I let one amazing Brahms adagio wash over me, but that was quite enough. My tastes are a bit too snobbish and highbrow, I suppose.
So I quickly turned the dial over to the country station.
2.16.2006
Close Neighbors
Yesterday morning, when I poked my head outside and saw two extremely full garbage canisters out by the curb, I thought to myself, what a good man. After working two consecutive 16 hour days, he still thought to put out the trash before stumbling off to work again at 6am.
When Andy came home from work, he was quite pleased to see that his normally scatterbrained wife had remembered the trash, as evidenced by the two empty garbage canisters out by the curb.
We were both rather dismayed to find two extraordinarily full garbage canisters behind the house.
When Andy came home from work, he was quite pleased to see that his normally scatterbrained wife had remembered the trash, as evidenced by the two empty garbage canisters out by the curb.
We were both rather dismayed to find two extraordinarily full garbage canisters behind the house.
2.15.2006
Support Your Favorite Wuggies!
The good news is that my post Five Days has won an award over at Everyday Hogwash.
To the tune of two hundred dollars.
The even better news is that this puts me in line for a possible thousand dollar prize.
And the best news of all is that YOU, dear reader, have a chance to participate! All you have to do is click here. Scroll down just a smidge, and you'll see a little poll box on the right. There are three entries for this week, and mine is the middle one, Five Days.
Do hurry... voting ends on midnight of the 17th.
I'm so excited!
To the tune of two hundred dollars.
The even better news is that this puts me in line for a possible thousand dollar prize.
And the best news of all is that YOU, dear reader, have a chance to participate! All you have to do is click here. Scroll down just a smidge, and you'll see a little poll box on the right. There are three entries for this week, and mine is the middle one, Five Days.
Do hurry... voting ends on midnight of the 17th.
I'm so excited!
2.14.2006
For Valentines Day, Mr. Wuggidy got down on one knee and presented the girl he loves dearest with something very special. Something bright and sparkly, one of the most beautiful and intriguing things he's ever seen. A headlight, of course. I was so glad I had the camera on hand to capture the moment.
The Promised Land is a Mighty Sticky Place
You can't imagine how thankful I am that no honey was involved.
2.13.2006
Toothsome Dainty
Beyond the usual and ever-constant changediaper-here'sacupofwater-timeforafeeding-makepeanutbuttersandwiches-takethatbacktothekitchenyoungman-diaperchange-leaveyoursisteralone-backtothekitchenNOW... there are only three things I want to accomplish today.
Like cutting September's teeth.
Yes, you heard me right. I am cutting my daughter's teeth. Tembo's philosophy is that teething is hard work, and it goes a lot better when mom does it for you. So here I sit, massaging her gums, trying to coax that recalcitrant tooth out, while my little one gazes up at me beatifically.
And what am I to get out of all this hard work? A tooth. In my nursling daughter's mouth.
Ouch.
Thus I spent a good deal of time wondering how in the world I was going to escape the ineveitable body art. The custom-texturized tummy-skin is quite enough of a statement. I don't need my nipple pierced.
I find it rather ironic that the child who actually went ahead and bit me there is neither teething nor nursing.
He had absolutely no shadow of an excuse.
I, on the other hand, had quite an excellent excuse to exile him to his room for a very long time-out.
Allowing me to give my full attention to Tembo's tooth.
- There's a huge pile of clean laundry, and an even bigger pile of dirty laundry. Eliminating one or both is tremendously urgent, because it's only a matter of time before the two become one and start to reproduce.
- I am bound and determined to have dinner on the table, kids hands washed and everything, all ready to sit down the moment Andy walks in the door.
My biggest project of the day, however is:
3. Cutting teeth.
I'm actually only facilitating the cutting of Isaiah's teeth. Teething is hard work, and it goes a lot better with your arms around mom's neck. Which thrills my soul... and also makes it very difficult to accomplish any of my other tasks.Like cutting September's teeth.
Yes, you heard me right. I am cutting my daughter's teeth. Tembo's philosophy is that teething is hard work, and it goes a lot better when mom does it for you. So here I sit, massaging her gums, trying to coax that recalcitrant tooth out, while my little one gazes up at me beatifically.
And what am I to get out of all this hard work? A tooth. In my nursling daughter's mouth.
Ouch.
Thus I spent a good deal of time wondering how in the world I was going to escape the ineveitable body art. The custom-texturized tummy-skin is quite enough of a statement. I don't need my nipple pierced.
I find it rather ironic that the child who actually went ahead and bit me there is neither teething nor nursing.
He had absolutely no shadow of an excuse.
I, on the other hand, had quite an excellent excuse to exile him to his room for a very long time-out.
Allowing me to give my full attention to Tembo's tooth.
2.12.2006
Oh day of rest and gladness
Really. No day of rush and madness this time.
This has been probably the first truly restful Sunday morning I have ever experienced. Well, maybe not ever, but certainly since having kids. There's always quite a scramble. But today the boys have a minor sniffle. Not enough to slow them down any, but enough to make us think twice about spreading their germs around the church nursery.
So despite staying up very late last night, chatting and catching up---a blissfully restful start to our Sabbath---Andy got up early, and was all ready to dash out the door in time for the 8am service. The idea was that I could then go to the 9:45 service while he stayed home with the kids. But just as he was walking out the door, it occured to me that it would be very hectic to try to arrange a baby-swap in the short time between the services. "Wouldn't you rather just stay for a nice, relaxed pancake breakfast? Then I'll just stay home with the kids while you go to the 9:45."
And so we did just that. The house was sparkling clean, since Justy came over yesterday and took the kids while Andy and I got stuff done. And oh, it felt good. Andy read Scripture aloud while I whipped together some wholesomely yummy multi-grain pancakes, and cut up a platterful of fruit. "I AM the Resurrection and the Life. He who believes in Me, though he die, yet shall he live."
And then, after a short interlude to clean up the nail polish Isaiah dumped everywhere, and another short interlude to clean up the carpet after Tembo's blowout, we sat down to a leisurely breakfast. Sunlight streamed through the window, setting the freshly mopped floor aglow, highlighting the inviting curls of steam rising from our coffee cups. Nathan insisted on some coffee in his milk, an indulgence that perhaps I will regret. Isaiah was quite delighted with the hearty, corn-filled pancakes, and maple syrup. September just beamed from her high chair.
I didn't make quite enough pancakes, which turned out to be all for the best, since it turned our attention to the strawberries and oranges. Had there been more, we would have simply eaten our fill of pancakes, but as it was, we had quite a nice balance of pancakes and fruit.
There was plenty of time for the meal, and just as it felt like it was time to get up from the table, the clock announced that indeed, it was time for Andy to leave for church. He had, of course, been ready to step out the door since quarter to eight. So he quickly changed into a shirt that was not covered in spit-up, and left for church, where I presume he is tranquilly enjoying a service without interruption.
And I am home with the children, reading The Idiot
. Perhaps reading a novel is a profane occupation of a Sunday morning, but not Dostoyevsky. It was remembering The Brothers Karamazov, I think, that brought that particular passage to Andy's mind this morning. "Lazarus come forth!" I hear the words of Christ resounding much more richly for having heard them in the voice of Alyosha. And now this morning, between the diaper changes and sopping up the spilled coffee, I am bathing in Prince Myshkin's holiness and mercy.
And oh, it is good.
This has been probably the first truly restful Sunday morning I have ever experienced. Well, maybe not ever, but certainly since having kids. There's always quite a scramble. But today the boys have a minor sniffle. Not enough to slow them down any, but enough to make us think twice about spreading their germs around the church nursery.
So despite staying up very late last night, chatting and catching up---a blissfully restful start to our Sabbath---Andy got up early, and was all ready to dash out the door in time for the 8am service. The idea was that I could then go to the 9:45 service while he stayed home with the kids. But just as he was walking out the door, it occured to me that it would be very hectic to try to arrange a baby-swap in the short time between the services. "Wouldn't you rather just stay for a nice, relaxed pancake breakfast? Then I'll just stay home with the kids while you go to the 9:45."
And so we did just that. The house was sparkling clean, since Justy came over yesterday and took the kids while Andy and I got stuff done. And oh, it felt good. Andy read Scripture aloud while I whipped together some wholesomely yummy multi-grain pancakes, and cut up a platterful of fruit. "I AM the Resurrection and the Life. He who believes in Me, though he die, yet shall he live."
And then, after a short interlude to clean up the nail polish Isaiah dumped everywhere, and another short interlude to clean up the carpet after Tembo's blowout, we sat down to a leisurely breakfast. Sunlight streamed through the window, setting the freshly mopped floor aglow, highlighting the inviting curls of steam rising from our coffee cups. Nathan insisted on some coffee in his milk, an indulgence that perhaps I will regret. Isaiah was quite delighted with the hearty, corn-filled pancakes, and maple syrup. September just beamed from her high chair.
I didn't make quite enough pancakes, which turned out to be all for the best, since it turned our attention to the strawberries and oranges. Had there been more, we would have simply eaten our fill of pancakes, but as it was, we had quite a nice balance of pancakes and fruit.
There was plenty of time for the meal, and just as it felt like it was time to get up from the table, the clock announced that indeed, it was time for Andy to leave for church. He had, of course, been ready to step out the door since quarter to eight. So he quickly changed into a shirt that was not covered in spit-up, and left for church, where I presume he is tranquilly enjoying a service without interruption.
And I am home with the children, reading The Idiot
. Perhaps reading a novel is a profane occupation of a Sunday morning, but not Dostoyevsky. It was remembering The Brothers Karamazov, I think, that brought that particular passage to Andy's mind this morning. "Lazarus come forth!" I hear the words of Christ resounding much more richly for having heard them in the voice of Alyosha. And now this morning, between the diaper changes and sopping up the spilled coffee, I am bathing in Prince Myshkin's holiness and mercy.And oh, it is good.
2.11.2006
On Holiday Shopping
Last night as I was looking over this week's grocery sale mailers, thoroughly bedecked with gushing hearts and flowers, it occurred to me that there are two sorts of minor holidays. There are some holidays that people may or may not splurge for, such as Labor Day, and Superbowl Sunday. In honor of those occasions, the grocery stores coax their customers into celebratory moods with specially low prices.
Other holidays, on the other hand, automatically induce splurging, all of their own accord. And so it is that the stores celebrate Valentines Day by gouging us all.
Can't you just feel the love?
Other holidays, on the other hand, automatically induce splurging, all of their own accord. And so it is that the stores celebrate Valentines Day by gouging us all.
Can't you just feel the love?
2.10.2006
Every time I look at my small Persephone-child, I am once again struck by how very much alive she is. More so in her stillness than in her squirmings, she gazes up at me with confident expectation, and the air vibrates with her vivacity.
Soft and snuggly and sweet and compliant, she is nevertheless very much her own person, and utterly self-contained.
And always I remember that first moment, when the doctor placed that naked little bundle of plumpitude across my new-deflated belly. With startling matter-of-fact-ness, I could almost hear her saying "Hey, everybody, here I am! Where's the party?"
Soft and snuggly and sweet and compliant, she is nevertheless very much her own person, and utterly self-contained.
And always I remember that first moment, when the doctor placed that naked little bundle of plumpitude across my new-deflated belly. With startling matter-of-fact-ness, I could almost hear her saying "Hey, everybody, here I am! Where's the party?"
2.09.2006
2.08.2006
Bath Time
Bug-bug was quite a stinker yesterday morning, being simultaneously in need of some discipline and a diaper change.
I gave first priority to discipline, and isolated him in his room for a few moments.
That was a big mistake.
I gave first priority to discipline, and isolated him in his room for a few moments.
That was a big mistake.
2.07.2006
2.06.2006
Five Days
Five is a nice round number, and five days makes for a pleasing interval of time. It's the length of a workweek. A week, but with generous margins, a bit of wiggle room on either side.
That is not what "five days" means when it comes to video rentals. However much five days may feel like a week, five days is most certainly NOT a week. Five days is a trunkated, squozened, crammed short week with two days lopped off.
We like to stop by the video store on the way home from church on Sunday afternoons. Once we have finished enjoying our selections, we place them carefully in the basket by the door, serene in the knowledge that we can safely forget about them until next weekend.
But if we rent them on Sunday, they will be due back on Friday. And we don't drive by the video store on Friday. But if we're making a special trip, of course we'll end up renting a few more while we're at it. And whatever we rent on Friday will be due next Wednesday. And Wednesday's films are due back on Monday, and Monday's on Saturday, and Saturday's on... at this rate it will be five weeks before we once again have videos conveniently due on a Sunday afternoon.
The only way to consistently return things on time is to integrate your trips into your weekly schedule. And when your life runs on a seven day cycle, and the video store runs on a five day cycle, the only way to do that is to schedule a video stop every single day of the week. Either that or resign yourself to paying a small fortune in late fees. Whichever you choose, they win.
Week after week, they get me.
Because "five days" just feels so much like a week.
That is not what "five days" means when it comes to video rentals. However much five days may feel like a week, five days is most certainly NOT a week. Five days is a trunkated, squozened, crammed short week with two days lopped off.
We like to stop by the video store on the way home from church on Sunday afternoons. Once we have finished enjoying our selections, we place them carefully in the basket by the door, serene in the knowledge that we can safely forget about them until next weekend.
But if we rent them on Sunday, they will be due back on Friday. And we don't drive by the video store on Friday. But if we're making a special trip, of course we'll end up renting a few more while we're at it. And whatever we rent on Friday will be due next Wednesday. And Wednesday's films are due back on Monday, and Monday's on Saturday, and Saturday's on... at this rate it will be five weeks before we once again have videos conveniently due on a Sunday afternoon.
The only way to consistently return things on time is to integrate your trips into your weekly schedule. And when your life runs on a seven day cycle, and the video store runs on a five day cycle, the only way to do that is to schedule a video stop every single day of the week. Either that or resign yourself to paying a small fortune in late fees. Whichever you choose, they win.
Week after week, they get me.
Because "five days" just feels so much like a week.
My husband is reading a modern book
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Don't Lets Go to the Dogs Tonight
Not only is he reading it, but enjoying it immensely.
Which just goes to show you that it's a very special book indeed.
The cover caught my eye at Borders--several years ago, actually. Every time I walked through Borders thereafter, I would flip through it, and be sorely tempted. It just looked so much like my kind of book.
A few weeks ago, Andy and I spent our date night at Borders--just for coffee and browsing, you know!--and I finally gave in and bought the book. Andy couldn't really object, because of that Greek book that he wasn't going to buy... just browse a bit... well...... and there it sits on our shelf. So while Andy couldn't object, and while his conscience forced him to actually encourage me to buy it, he most certainly could sneer. With all the great books there are to be read, why would you waste your precious time on one that is less than ten years old? He prefers to wait for the fltering effect of time. Our conversations thereafter were laced with subtle condescending references to "my sort of book."
It most definitely is my sort of book. I was initially attracted to it because the vague black and white photo on the cover seemed to suggest something akin to the sheer rock walls and tallis slopes that formed the backdrop to my own childhood. It's not. Look closely and you'll see that it's actually a house and a lawn... a very different sort of landscape, as far as all particulars are concerned. But still something of the spirit is the same there.
And that is the way of our respective stories. Diametrically opposed in all particulars, but astonishinly similar in flavor. Her African childhood and my canyon childhood were filled with the same themes and incongruities, and though we experienced them from entirely different perspectives, we experienced them in precisely the same way.
And thus it was that my astonishment at finding Andy reading my book was rather surpassed by my relief at hearing him pronounce it to be really remarkable.
I think maybe I'll try to get through a few pages of his book this afternoon. Even if it is all Greek to me.
Don't Lets Go to the Dogs Tonight
Not only is he reading it, but enjoying it immensely.
Which just goes to show you that it's a very special book indeed.
The cover caught my eye at Borders--several years ago, actually. Every time I walked through Borders thereafter, I would flip through it, and be sorely tempted. It just looked so much like my kind of book.
A few weeks ago, Andy and I spent our date night at Borders--just for coffee and browsing, you know!--and I finally gave in and bought the book. Andy couldn't really object, because of that Greek book that he wasn't going to buy... just browse a bit... well...... and there it sits on our shelf. So while Andy couldn't object, and while his conscience forced him to actually encourage me to buy it, he most certainly could sneer. With all the great books there are to be read, why would you waste your precious time on one that is less than ten years old? He prefers to wait for the fltering effect of time. Our conversations thereafter were laced with subtle condescending references to "my sort of book."
It most definitely is my sort of book. I was initially attracted to it because the vague black and white photo on the cover seemed to suggest something akin to the sheer rock walls and tallis slopes that formed the backdrop to my own childhood. It's not. Look closely and you'll see that it's actually a house and a lawn... a very different sort of landscape, as far as all particulars are concerned. But still something of the spirit is the same there.
And that is the way of our respective stories. Diametrically opposed in all particulars, but astonishinly similar in flavor. Her African childhood and my canyon childhood were filled with the same themes and incongruities, and though we experienced them from entirely different perspectives, we experienced them in precisely the same way.
And thus it was that my astonishment at finding Andy reading my book was rather surpassed by my relief at hearing him pronounce it to be really remarkable.
I think maybe I'll try to get through a few pages of his book this afternoon. Even if it is all Greek to me.
2.03.2006
Pray for Hunter
Please pray for little Hunter Nick, 3 week old son of our good friends Brian and Ashley. He hasn't kept anything down for the past 48 hours, and had surgery this morning. Please pray for the little guy's recovery, and for his exhausted parents, and for his almost-two-year-old big sister.
Jessica has been posting frequent updates.
Thanks all.
Jessica has been posting frequent updates.
Thanks all.
Perspective
Classic Adventures: Finding Our Groove
Emily found this one, and it's really worth a read.
What a great perspective on motherhood!
Emily found this one, and it's really worth a read.
What a great perspective on motherhood!
2.01.2006
Bought by a shopping cart
When we lived in La Mirada, I would go out of my way to shop at Stater Bros. whenever I could. This was partly because they tended to have better produce, better meat, and better prices than Vons, partly because they have delightfully friendly employees, and partly because they don’t have any club cards. Call me paranoid, but my good dispensationalist upbringing has taught me to be quite wary of folks who insist upon collecting all sorts of personal information before they will sell you vegetables at a fair price.
But mostly I liked Stater Bros. because of their toddler-friendly shopping carts. Those little cars in front—with two steering wheels!—turn shopping with two toddlers and an infant from an utter nightmare to a mere unpleasant experience.
So when we moved to Anaheim, I was elated to see a Stater Bros. right on State College.
Alas, it was not the La Mirada Stater Bros. I knew that it wouldn’t be Juan stocking the vegetables, but I thought for sure that they would have the same quality of groceries, the same excellent selection, and the same low prices. Nope, nope, and nope. Worst of all, they didn’t sell cherry turnovers or poppy-seed bagels, and they didn’t have the spiffy carts.
In fact, their carts were utterly absurd, little more than trays on wheels.
The nearest Vons, on the other hand, is gorgeous, with lovely decor, a full-service meat department, spectacular bakery, in-store florist, and even a Starbucks. The produce is fresh, the variety dazzling.
And the carts! Oh the carts! Not only do they have a little two passenger car in front, but there is also room to strap in two—two!—misbehaving children up facing mom.
So now the tables are turned. I pass right by the Stater Bros. around the corner, and drive all the way out to Vons.
And hope that they don’t make me tattoo any barcodes to my forehead.
But mostly I liked Stater Bros. because of their toddler-friendly shopping carts. Those little cars in front—with two steering wheels!—turn shopping with two toddlers and an infant from an utter nightmare to a mere unpleasant experience.
So when we moved to Anaheim, I was elated to see a Stater Bros. right on State College.
Alas, it was not the La Mirada Stater Bros. I knew that it wouldn’t be Juan stocking the vegetables, but I thought for sure that they would have the same quality of groceries, the same excellent selection, and the same low prices. Nope, nope, and nope. Worst of all, they didn’t sell cherry turnovers or poppy-seed bagels, and they didn’t have the spiffy carts.
In fact, their carts were utterly absurd, little more than trays on wheels.
The nearest Vons, on the other hand, is gorgeous, with lovely decor, a full-service meat department, spectacular bakery, in-store florist, and even a Starbucks. The produce is fresh, the variety dazzling.
And the carts! Oh the carts! Not only do they have a little two passenger car in front, but there is also room to strap in two—two!—misbehaving children up facing mom.
So now the tables are turned. I pass right by the Stater Bros. around the corner, and drive all the way out to Vons.
And hope that they don’t make me tattoo any barcodes to my forehead.
1.31.2006
Domesticity
I've been trying a new system for structuring my day. Everybody needs a kazillion different things from me and it gets pretty confusing. It's not so much that there's too much to do, as that all the demands on my time come in such a haphazard fashion, and it's tough to stay focused.
Anyway, everybody takes turns now. Well, they don't take turns asking for stuff, but I take turns listening to them.
I set the kitchen timer for 15 min., and for those fifteen minutes, I'm entirely focused on the kids. Diapers and sippy cups and stories and block towers. They always need laundry, too, and if they're happily occupying themselves, I'll throw in a load... but for those fifteen minutes, they can't possibly get in the way, because they're the highest priority.
Then the buzzer goes off, and it's Andy's turn for fifteen minutes. Dishes and mopping and bills and menu-planning. Of course I'll deal with any urgent crisis with the kids--after all, Andy want's his kids taken care of--but if it can wait, it will wait. Because once the buzzer goes oof, the next 15 minutes are theirs again.
And then it's MY fifteen minutes. And I'd tell you what I do with my fifteen minutes... except that the buzzer just went off.
Anyway, everybody takes turns now. Well, they don't take turns asking for stuff, but I take turns listening to them.
I set the kitchen timer for 15 min., and for those fifteen minutes, I'm entirely focused on the kids. Diapers and sippy cups and stories and block towers. They always need laundry, too, and if they're happily occupying themselves, I'll throw in a load... but for those fifteen minutes, they can't possibly get in the way, because they're the highest priority.
Then the buzzer goes off, and it's Andy's turn for fifteen minutes. Dishes and mopping and bills and menu-planning. Of course I'll deal with any urgent crisis with the kids--after all, Andy want's his kids taken care of--but if it can wait, it will wait. Because once the buzzer goes oof, the next 15 minutes are theirs again.
And then it's MY fifteen minutes. And I'd tell you what I do with my fifteen minutes... except that the buzzer just went off.
Trial and Error and Unacceptable HTML
Blogger and I are having communications issues.
I'm beginning to think that immersion might not be the best language-learning technique for HTML.
Meanwhile, can anybody tell me why my template is so kerbonchlified?
I'm beginning to think that immersion might not be the best language-learning technique for HTML.
Meanwhile, can anybody tell me why my template is so kerbonchlified?
1.27.2006
One of those days
It's been one of those days. You know, the sort of day where you realize that the chicken you were planning on having for dinner has been in the fridge just a little too long. You're tempted to use it anyway, but after googling salmonela, you decide that throwing it away is the safer option.
The sort of day where you realize that throwing it away wasn't a safe option at all, 'cause there's son number one, busily excavating too-old raw chicken from the trash and spreading it around on one of the chairs. Suddenly reupholstering the chairs jumps to the top of the priority list. Especially since that's not the same chair as the one that he gleefully poured his milk on an hour ago.
It's been the sort of day where as you're trying to scrub the butter off the outside of the refrigerator door, son number two squeezes the trigger of the bottle in your hand and gives himself a faceful of Orange Blast.
Yeah... It's just pretty much been one of those days.
The sort of day where you realize that throwing it away wasn't a safe option at all, 'cause there's son number one, busily excavating too-old raw chicken from the trash and spreading it around on one of the chairs. Suddenly reupholstering the chairs jumps to the top of the priority list. Especially since that's not the same chair as the one that he gleefully poured his milk on an hour ago.
It's been the sort of day where as you're trying to scrub the butter off the outside of the refrigerator door, son number two squeezes the trigger of the bottle in your hand and gives himself a faceful of Orange Blast.
Yeah... It's just pretty much been one of those days.
1.26.2006
Four
And no, this is not an announcement. =)
I contemplated waiting for four tags, but I think I'll be nice and settle for the square root of four. =) So, Rachel and Lauren, here they are...
Four Jobs I've Had
1. Flute teacher
2. English tutor
3. Coordinator for Andy's summer math academy
and of course, last, but not least,
4. My current position as Shaper of Souls, Changer of Diapers.
Four Places I've Lived
1. Supai, Arizona. One of the most beautiful spots on earth, a little village tucked away inside the Grand Canyon. A lush oasis in an austere desert, waterfalls of a delicate magnificence, towering walls glowing in the sun, hemming in the bluest of skies...
2. Cottonwood, Arizona. Because what Supai has in beauty, it lacks in things like, well, grocery stores. My childhood was split between these two places, two weeks here, a month there.
3. La Mirada, CA, where I attended Biola University and the Torrey Honors Institute.
4. And here we are in Anaheim, right where the 91 meets the 57. Freeway interchanges are one of the few truly beautiful things in Los Angeles. As long as their moving, that is.
Four Vacations I've Taken
1. I have vague (but fond) recollections of camping on a rocky beach in Oregon, where the air was filled with salt and sea gulls, and they had a wonderful childrens program, featuring Scott O'Dell readings. I'm not exactly sure if there was a geographical relationship between that particular location and Island of the Blue Dolphins, but I do know that I earned a very spiffy badge for filling a certain number of trash bags on my de-littering expeditions. I also seem to remember watching Haley's Comet from under a crowded canopy... but I suspect my memory might be combining several camping trips into one. The dates don't quite line up, and besides, who would watch a comet from under a canopy? (Unless it was raining.... hardly ever rains in Oregon...)
2. I remember going up to Grandma and Grandpa's little cottage by The Lake, and floating peacefully in an inner tube with my mother.
3. There was a dear sweet lady, a friend of Wycliffe, who owned two amazing beach-front condominiums in beautiful San Clemente. She lived in one, and rented the other out to weary missionary families for the price of $100/wk. This is what comes to mind when I think of utter tranquility.
4. For our first anniversary, Andy and I spent a weekend at an adorable little historic port town in Oregon. Unfortuantely I don't remember either the name of the town, or its historic significance apart from being the home of an exceedingly eccentric merchant with a magnificent house, but we had a wonderful time.
Four Vehicles I've Owned
1. '91 Toyota Tercel, given us by Andy's parents. An amazing little vehicle. I'm pretty sure we have the oldest vehicle among our circle of friends, and the most reliable.
2. The doopah-mobile is a blessing straight from the hand of God. I think its new name is Chewbacca, though, since that's who it sounds like when it asks for more power-steering fluid. Which is often. I tell you, this vehicle is thirstier than a nursing mom.
3. twin stroller. And yes, it actually does fit through most doorways. Usually. At any rate, it navigates corners and curbs, which is more than you can say for most tandems. Do be cautious on the curbs though, especially when moving the seats to the upright position. The center of gravity changes considerably. Not that I'd have any way of knowing this...
4. Ummm.... my sons have a number of trucks. Does that count?
Four Bloggers I'd like to Tag
1. Becka
2. Emily
3. Lauren M.
4. Sarah
(Not that I don't know most of these things about you, sis... but you really do need to update your blog more often. Love you!)
I contemplated waiting for four tags, but I think I'll be nice and settle for the square root of four. =) So, Rachel and Lauren, here they are...
Four Jobs I've Had
1. Flute teacher
2. English tutor
3. Coordinator for Andy's summer math academy
and of course, last, but not least,
4. My current position as Shaper of Souls, Changer of Diapers.
Four Places I've Lived
1. Supai, Arizona. One of the most beautiful spots on earth, a little village tucked away inside the Grand Canyon. A lush oasis in an austere desert, waterfalls of a delicate magnificence, towering walls glowing in the sun, hemming in the bluest of skies...
2. Cottonwood, Arizona. Because what Supai has in beauty, it lacks in things like, well, grocery stores. My childhood was split between these two places, two weeks here, a month there.
3. La Mirada, CA, where I attended Biola University and the Torrey Honors Institute.
4. And here we are in Anaheim, right where the 91 meets the 57. Freeway interchanges are one of the few truly beautiful things in Los Angeles. As long as their moving, that is.
Four Vacations I've Taken
1. I have vague (but fond) recollections of camping on a rocky beach in Oregon, where the air was filled with salt and sea gulls, and they had a wonderful childrens program, featuring Scott O'Dell readings. I'm not exactly sure if there was a geographical relationship between that particular location and Island of the Blue Dolphins, but I do know that I earned a very spiffy badge for filling a certain number of trash bags on my de-littering expeditions. I also seem to remember watching Haley's Comet from under a crowded canopy... but I suspect my memory might be combining several camping trips into one. The dates don't quite line up, and besides, who would watch a comet from under a canopy? (Unless it was raining.... hardly ever rains in Oregon...)
2. I remember going up to Grandma and Grandpa's little cottage by The Lake, and floating peacefully in an inner tube with my mother.
3. There was a dear sweet lady, a friend of Wycliffe, who owned two amazing beach-front condominiums in beautiful San Clemente. She lived in one, and rented the other out to weary missionary families for the price of $100/wk. This is what comes to mind when I think of utter tranquility.
4. For our first anniversary, Andy and I spent a weekend at an adorable little historic port town in Oregon. Unfortuantely I don't remember either the name of the town, or its historic significance apart from being the home of an exceedingly eccentric merchant with a magnificent house, but we had a wonderful time.
Four Vehicles I've Owned
1. '91 Toyota Tercel, given us by Andy's parents. An amazing little vehicle. I'm pretty sure we have the oldest vehicle among our circle of friends, and the most reliable.
2. The doopah-mobile is a blessing straight from the hand of God. I think its new name is Chewbacca, though, since that's who it sounds like when it asks for more power-steering fluid. Which is often. I tell you, this vehicle is thirstier than a nursing mom.
3. twin stroller
. And yes, it actually does fit through most doorways. Usually. At any rate, it navigates corners and curbs, which is more than you can say for most tandems. Do be cautious on the curbs though, especially when moving the seats to the upright position. The center of gravity changes considerably. Not that I'd have any way of knowing this...4. Ummm.... my sons have a number of trucks. Does that count?
Four Bloggers I'd like to Tag
1. Becka
2. Emily
3. Lauren M.
4. Sarah
(Not that I don't know most of these things about you, sis... but you really do need to update your blog more often. Love you!)
Four
And no, this is not an announcement. =)
I contemplated waiting for four tags, but I think I'll be nice and settle for the square root of four. =) So, Rachel and Lauren, here they are...
Four Jobs I've Had
1. Flute teacher
2. English tutor
3. Coordinator for Andy's summer math academy
and of course, last, but not least,
4. My current position as Shaper of Souls, Changer of Diapers.
Four Places I've Lived
1. Supai, Arizona. One of the most beautiful spots on earth, a little village tucked away inside the Grand Canyon. A lush oasis in an austere desert, waterfalls of a delicate magnificence, towering walls glowing in the sun, hemming in the bluest of skies...
2. Cottonwood, Arizona. Because what Supai has in beauty, it lacks in things like, well, grocery stores. My childhood was split between these two places, two weeks here, a month there.
3. La Mirada, CA, where I attended Biola University and the Torrey Honors Institute.
4. And here we are in Anaheim, right where the 91 meets the 57. Freeway interchanges are one of the few truly beautiful things in Los Angeles. As long as their moving, that is.
Four Vacations I've Taken
1. I have vague (but fond) recollections of camping on a rocky beach in Oregon, where the air was filled with salt and sea gulls, and they had a wonderful childrens program, featuring Scott O'Dell readings. I'm not exactly sure if there was a geographical relationship between that particular location and http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0440439884/sr=1-1/qid=1138296734/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-5014156-4500102?%5Fencoding=UTF8, but I do know that I earned a very spiffy badge for filling a certain number of trash bags on my de-littering expeditions. I also seem to remember watching Haley's Comet from under a crowded canopy... but I suspect my memory might be combining several camping trips into one. The dates don't quite line up, and besides, who would watch a comet from under a canopy? (Unless it was raining.... hardly ever rains in Oregon...)
2. I remember going up to Grandma and Grandpa's little cottage by The Lake, and floating peacefully in an inner tube with my mother.
3. There was a dear sweet lady, a friend of Wycliffe, who owned two amazing beach-front condominiums in beautiful San Clemente. She lived in one, and rented the other out to weary missionary families for the price of $100/wk. This is what comes to mind when I think of utter tranquility.
4. For our first anniversary, Andy and I spent a weekend at an adorable little historic port town in Oregon. Unfortuantely I don't remember either the name of the town, or its historic significance apart from being the home of an exceedingly eccentric merchant with a magnificent house, but we had a wonderful time.
Four Vehicles I've Owned
1. '91 Toyota Tercel, given us by Andy's parents. An amazing little vehicle. I'm pretty sure we have the oldest vehicle among our circle of friends, and the most reliable.
2. The doopah-mobile is a blessing straight from the hand of God. I think its new name is Chewbacca, though, since that's who it sounds like when it asks for more power-steering fluid. Which is often. I tell you, this vehicle is thirstier than a nursing mom.
3. twin stroller. And yes, it actually does fit through most doorways. Usually. At any rate, it navigates corners and curbs, which is more than you can say for most tandems. Do be cautious on the curbs though, especially when moving the seats to the upright position. The center of gravity changes considerably. Not that I'd have any way of knowing this...
4. Ummm.... my sons have a number of trucks. Does that count?
Four Bloggers I'd like to Tag
1. Becka
2. Emily
3. Lauren M.
4. Sarah
(Not that I don't know most of these things about you, sis... but you really do need to update your blog more often. Love you!)
I contemplated waiting for four tags, but I think I'll be nice and settle for the square root of four. =) So, Rachel and Lauren, here they are...
Four Jobs I've Had
1. Flute teacher
2. English tutor
3. Coordinator for Andy's summer math academy
and of course, last, but not least,
4. My current position as Shaper of Souls, Changer of Diapers.
Four Places I've Lived
1. Supai, Arizona. One of the most beautiful spots on earth, a little village tucked away inside the Grand Canyon. A lush oasis in an austere desert, waterfalls of a delicate magnificence, towering walls glowing in the sun, hemming in the bluest of skies...
2. Cottonwood, Arizona. Because what Supai has in beauty, it lacks in things like, well, grocery stores. My childhood was split between these two places, two weeks here, a month there.
3. La Mirada, CA, where I attended Biola University and the Torrey Honors Institute.
4. And here we are in Anaheim, right where the 91 meets the 57. Freeway interchanges are one of the few truly beautiful things in Los Angeles. As long as their moving, that is.
Four Vacations I've Taken
1. I have vague (but fond) recollections of camping on a rocky beach in Oregon, where the air was filled with salt and sea gulls, and they had a wonderful childrens program, featuring Scott O'Dell readings. I'm not exactly sure if there was a geographical relationship between that particular location and http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0440439884/sr=1-1/qid=1138296734/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-5014156-4500102?%5Fencoding=UTF8, but I do know that I earned a very spiffy badge for filling a certain number of trash bags on my de-littering expeditions. I also seem to remember watching Haley's Comet from under a crowded canopy... but I suspect my memory might be combining several camping trips into one. The dates don't quite line up, and besides, who would watch a comet from under a canopy? (Unless it was raining.... hardly ever rains in Oregon...)
2. I remember going up to Grandma and Grandpa's little cottage by The Lake, and floating peacefully in an inner tube with my mother.
3. There was a dear sweet lady, a friend of Wycliffe, who owned two amazing beach-front condominiums in beautiful San Clemente. She lived in one, and rented the other out to weary missionary families for the price of $100/wk. This is what comes to mind when I think of utter tranquility.
4. For our first anniversary, Andy and I spent a weekend at an adorable little historic port town in Oregon. Unfortuantely I don't remember either the name of the town, or its historic significance apart from being the home of an exceedingly eccentric merchant with a magnificent house, but we had a wonderful time.
Four Vehicles I've Owned
1. '91 Toyota Tercel, given us by Andy's parents. An amazing little vehicle. I'm pretty sure we have the oldest vehicle among our circle of friends, and the most reliable.
2. The doopah-mobile is a blessing straight from the hand of God. I think its new name is Chewbacca, though, since that's who it sounds like when it asks for more power-steering fluid. Which is often. I tell you, this vehicle is thirstier than a nursing mom.
3. twin stroller
. And yes, it actually does fit through most doorways. Usually. At any rate, it navigates corners and curbs, which is more than you can say for most tandems. Do be cautious on the curbs though, especially when moving the seats to the upright position. The center of gravity changes considerably. Not that I'd have any way of knowing this...4. Ummm.... my sons have a number of trucks. Does that count?
Four Bloggers I'd like to Tag
1. Becka
2. Emily
3. Lauren M.
4. Sarah
(Not that I don't know most of these things about you, sis... but you really do need to update your blog more often. Love you!)
1.24.2006
It's a Shame
I was sitting on the couch with September when Nathan came up to me, holding out a mangled shard of plastic that was once part of a cassette case.
"Bow-keen. Bow-keen."
It took me a while to catch on to what he was saying. "That's right, Meepo. Uh-oh. It's broken."
Then he pointed up at the blinds on the window directly over my head. "Bow-keen."
"Yep. That's right. You boys have pretty much destroyed the blinds."
He shook his head ruefully, clucking softly. "Tsa shame."
"Bow-keen. Bow-keen."
It took me a while to catch on to what he was saying. "That's right, Meepo. Uh-oh. It's broken."
Then he pointed up at the blinds on the window directly over my head. "Bow-keen."
"Yep. That's right. You boys have pretty much destroyed the blinds."
He shook his head ruefully, clucking softly. "Tsa shame."
1.23.2006
Hair-raising
Andy and I are working hard on training the wuggies not to pull one another's hair... but, well, we try hard, and they pull hard. It's getting better, slowly but surely, but it's still a big problem around here.
Anyway, Isaiah was sitting on my lap, and we were working on his facial features. He poked his finger in my eye, and said "eye!" I then pointed to my nose. "Nose!"
He pointed to his own nose. "Nos!"
"Ear!"
"Ire!"
"Cheek"
"Teek"
"Hair!"
"Owie!"
Anyway, Isaiah was sitting on my lap, and we were working on his facial features. He poked his finger in my eye, and said "eye!" I then pointed to my nose. "Nose!"
He pointed to his own nose. "Nos!"
"Ear!"
"Ire!"
"Cheek"
"Teek"
"Hair!"
"Owie!"
1.21.2006
Grace for the Journey
One afternoon last week, as I was sitting in the Target parking lot, contemplating how I was going to trek all three kids through the store, I breathed a silent prayer.
Please God, no more sympathy.
I’d been listening to the Alito confirmation hearings on the way over, and senators were trying to nail down his opinion of Roe v. Wade. Alito managed to evade most of their questions, although without the tremendous authority and finesse Roberts showed when it was his turn. I was quite sure Alito would make a fine justice if confirmed... but listening as he ran the gauntlet mostly just reminded me that Chief Justice Roberts is the man. Utterly grueling, and Alito did a fine job. But Roberts made it look easy, towering over the great men and women of congress like a god.
Anyway. As they grew more and more frustrated, senators gave eloquent and impassioned expressions of why the issue is so important. It’s not just a question of the rights of women vs. the rights of fetuses, it is a question of the value and status of women. A woman’s right to choose is utterly fundamental to her personhood, to her very value as a human being. Failure to fund a woman’s abortion is failure to grant her full status as an adult human person.
All this hurt me on a very deep and personal level. Because, of course, what this means is that woman qua woman isn’t really quite human. A woman is not fully a person until she has the option of walking away from parenthood. The implication, subtle but searing, was that femininity is inherently problematic, that we need to do something about my womanhood in order to make me as much a fully adult human as a deadbeat dad.
I’d already spent the morning, not exactly regretting my life path, but feeling rather ashamed of it. What am I doing, sitting here at home with a baby at my breast, chasing toddlers around, instead of pursuing a degree or doing something significant? And what is wrong with me that I’m loving it?
Hearing eloquent senators pontificate about the need to rescue women from the degradation of motherhood just drove the shame in deeper.
And now I had to trundle everybody around Target, and face the stares. You can’t go anywhere with twins without attracting lots of attention. It just doesn’t happen. When it was just the twins, it was all admiration. My, my, wasn’t I lucky to have my two kids all at once so I wouldn’t ever have to get pregnant again. But of course, I did get pregnant again, and, moreover, I had another baby. And now people just gawk, and a few of them even have the audacity to express their sympathy. What a poor, unfortunate woman I am, so young with so many children. Oh how sorry they are that God has blessed us so richly.
The more tired and worn out you are, the more sympathy you attract—and I was too tired and worn out to deal with it.
Please, God. No more sympathy. Not today. I just can’t handle it.
He must have heard me.
The smiling lady at the snack bar admired my small Persephone child, and another young mom pointed out the twins to her little girls. I had a nice chat with the immensely pregnant woman buying pull-ups for her twin toddlers at home. But no derisive stares, no pitying glances.
And then, as I was browsing through the shoe section, a man approached me. Probably in his mid-twenties, gaunt, disheveled, and moderately toothless. When he saw the twins, his face broke open into wonder and delight. He stood there for a good five minutes, maybe ten, reveling in their beauty. I stroked September’s head as I talked with him, and he asked permission to do the same. As he rubbed her bald little noggin, I was afraid he might explode with the joy of it. I really love these kids, don’t I? He could tell. What a lucky man my husband is... lots of women now don’t really want the bother of having kids...
Suddenly he remembered himself. He apologized, embarrassed, for taking up so much of my time, and we each went back to our respective browsing.
A few minutes later, he was back again, this time trying on a handsome pair of black loafers. He shyly asked if I would tell him what I thought of the shoes. Were they the right sort of shoes to wear to church?
See he’s been going to church lately, New Life Fellowship down the street. Trying to put his life back together, you know? He’s a little out of place in sneakers and T-shirts, but you’re supposed to come the way you are, right? But, well... His voice trailed off, and he gave a little shrug.
And it was my turn to delight, to be blown away by a little glimpse into the beauty of grace and redemption. Come as you are, come and be restored. God showed his love for us in this, that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us... And it is that utter love and acceptance that draws us out of our brokenness and filth to become who we were meant to be all along.
I assured him that the shoes were very nice, and concurred with his hopes that if he saves them just for Sundays, they should last him a long time. We wished one another God’s blessings on our respective journeys, and then I finished up my shopping---still exhausted, but much refreshed. And immensely glad for having lugged my wuggies through Target that day.
Please God, no more sympathy.
I’d been listening to the Alito confirmation hearings on the way over, and senators were trying to nail down his opinion of Roe v. Wade. Alito managed to evade most of their questions, although without the tremendous authority and finesse Roberts showed when it was his turn. I was quite sure Alito would make a fine justice if confirmed... but listening as he ran the gauntlet mostly just reminded me that Chief Justice Roberts is the man. Utterly grueling, and Alito did a fine job. But Roberts made it look easy, towering over the great men and women of congress like a god.
Anyway. As they grew more and more frustrated, senators gave eloquent and impassioned expressions of why the issue is so important. It’s not just a question of the rights of women vs. the rights of fetuses, it is a question of the value and status of women. A woman’s right to choose is utterly fundamental to her personhood, to her very value as a human being. Failure to fund a woman’s abortion is failure to grant her full status as an adult human person.
All this hurt me on a very deep and personal level. Because, of course, what this means is that woman qua woman isn’t really quite human. A woman is not fully a person until she has the option of walking away from parenthood. The implication, subtle but searing, was that femininity is inherently problematic, that we need to do something about my womanhood in order to make me as much a fully adult human as a deadbeat dad.
I’d already spent the morning, not exactly regretting my life path, but feeling rather ashamed of it. What am I doing, sitting here at home with a baby at my breast, chasing toddlers around, instead of pursuing a degree or doing something significant? And what is wrong with me that I’m loving it?
Hearing eloquent senators pontificate about the need to rescue women from the degradation of motherhood just drove the shame in deeper.
And now I had to trundle everybody around Target, and face the stares. You can’t go anywhere with twins without attracting lots of attention. It just doesn’t happen. When it was just the twins, it was all admiration. My, my, wasn’t I lucky to have my two kids all at once so I wouldn’t ever have to get pregnant again. But of course, I did get pregnant again, and, moreover, I had another baby. And now people just gawk, and a few of them even have the audacity to express their sympathy. What a poor, unfortunate woman I am, so young with so many children. Oh how sorry they are that God has blessed us so richly.
The more tired and worn out you are, the more sympathy you attract—and I was too tired and worn out to deal with it.
Please, God. No more sympathy. Not today. I just can’t handle it.
He must have heard me.
The smiling lady at the snack bar admired my small Persephone child, and another young mom pointed out the twins to her little girls. I had a nice chat with the immensely pregnant woman buying pull-ups for her twin toddlers at home. But no derisive stares, no pitying glances.
And then, as I was browsing through the shoe section, a man approached me. Probably in his mid-twenties, gaunt, disheveled, and moderately toothless. When he saw the twins, his face broke open into wonder and delight. He stood there for a good five minutes, maybe ten, reveling in their beauty. I stroked September’s head as I talked with him, and he asked permission to do the same. As he rubbed her bald little noggin, I was afraid he might explode with the joy of it. I really love these kids, don’t I? He could tell. What a lucky man my husband is... lots of women now don’t really want the bother of having kids...
Suddenly he remembered himself. He apologized, embarrassed, for taking up so much of my time, and we each went back to our respective browsing.
A few minutes later, he was back again, this time trying on a handsome pair of black loafers. He shyly asked if I would tell him what I thought of the shoes. Were they the right sort of shoes to wear to church?
See he’s been going to church lately, New Life Fellowship down the street. Trying to put his life back together, you know? He’s a little out of place in sneakers and T-shirts, but you’re supposed to come the way you are, right? But, well... His voice trailed off, and he gave a little shrug.
And it was my turn to delight, to be blown away by a little glimpse into the beauty of grace and redemption. Come as you are, come and be restored. God showed his love for us in this, that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us... And it is that utter love and acceptance that draws us out of our brokenness and filth to become who we were meant to be all along.
I assured him that the shoes were very nice, and concurred with his hopes that if he saves them just for Sundays, they should last him a long time. We wished one another God’s blessings on our respective journeys, and then I finished up my shopping---still exhausted, but much refreshed. And immensely glad for having lugged my wuggies through Target that day.
1.19.2006
1.17.2006
The fruit of the... orange tree.
The other night, Andy and I had a bit of red wine with our steaks. The wuggies had orange juice. When Isaiah had drained his cup, he slid his empty glass over to Dadders, saying "Mo!"
But instead of getting the pitcher out of the fridge, Andy poured him a few drops out of his own glass. Isaiah held it up, and carefully examined the deep garnet liquid. After sniffing it, he carefully put the cup up to his mouth.
No sooner had the first drop touched his lips, than he slowly, deliberately set the glass down again, and pushed it back toward Dadders.
With tremendous dignity and firmness, he clarified his request. "Onge. Jus."
But instead of getting the pitcher out of the fridge, Andy poured him a few drops out of his own glass. Isaiah held it up, and carefully examined the deep garnet liquid. After sniffing it, he carefully put the cup up to his mouth.
No sooner had the first drop touched his lips, than he slowly, deliberately set the glass down again, and pushed it back toward Dadders.
With tremendous dignity and firmness, he clarified his request. "Onge. Jus."
1.15.2006
Transplant
Our church has a superbly gifted organist, but alas our decrepid organ is quite unworthy of her talents. Thus it was with great jubilation that she announced this morning that the parish's $3650 bid on ebay had won us a gorgeous antique pipe organ somewhere in Ohio, and we will be undergoing an organ transplant.
Speaking of music, we played musical babies after church. Who doesn't? Anyway, while Katie was getting her baby fix with September, I stepped outside to meet eight-day-old Hunter Nick. Of course I was quite eager to hold the little fellow, and his tired mama took advantage of the opportunity to duck into the fellowship hall to get big sister Autumn something to munch.
So I was standing out in front of the church holding a tiny blue bundle when Andy found me. "Oh there you are. Hey wait a second... you changed September's outfit!"
Speaking of music, we played musical babies after church. Who doesn't? Anyway, while Katie was getting her baby fix with September, I stepped outside to meet eight-day-old Hunter Nick. Of course I was quite eager to hold the little fellow, and his tired mama took advantage of the opportunity to duck into the fellowship hall to get big sister Autumn something to munch.
So I was standing out in front of the church holding a tiny blue bundle when Andy found me. "Oh there you are. Hey wait a second... you changed September's outfit!"
1.13.2006
Love and Logic
Earlier this week, my in-laws sent us some fabulous childrearing resources:
Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants: Parenting Styles and the Messages They Send
Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years
Excellent, excellent, excellent.
His principles really boil down to personal responsibility. Right from the start, we must teach our children to own their decisions and think wisely. This means that whatever wrong things they do must make trouble for themselves--not for anyone else. Since anger makes for a really bad learning environment, everything needs to be very calm, loving and empathetic. But whatever they do, they're going to have to live with the consequences.
So when Isaiah starts scaling the kitchen cupboards, uh-oh, it's such a bummer. Can't have that, so it looks like he'll just have to go hang out by himself in his room for a while.
A whiny older child sure drains mom's energy, so he'll have to make up for it by vaccuming.
Anyone who won't behave at the grocery store will obviously have to stay home next time... and will be responsible for paying for the babysitting, either through chores or giving up some of their toys.
And that poor, poor kid who flipped the bird for the class photo. He had to completely arrange the retake, setting up the risers, unloading the photographer's equipment, and paying for the replacement prints for all the parents.
With these principles, you are in complete control of your parenting as you teach your children to be in control of their behavior. Works a whole lot better than utterly losing control of the situation as you struggle to control your children's behavior.
Things have been much calmer around here for the past few days.
Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants: Parenting Styles and the Messages They Send
Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years
Excellent, excellent, excellent.
His principles really boil down to personal responsibility. Right from the start, we must teach our children to own their decisions and think wisely. This means that whatever wrong things they do must make trouble for themselves--not for anyone else. Since anger makes for a really bad learning environment, everything needs to be very calm, loving and empathetic. But whatever they do, they're going to have to live with the consequences.
So when Isaiah starts scaling the kitchen cupboards, uh-oh, it's such a bummer. Can't have that, so it looks like he'll just have to go hang out by himself in his room for a while.
A whiny older child sure drains mom's energy, so he'll have to make up for it by vaccuming.
Anyone who won't behave at the grocery store will obviously have to stay home next time... and will be responsible for paying for the babysitting, either through chores or giving up some of their toys.
And that poor, poor kid who flipped the bird for the class photo. He had to completely arrange the retake, setting up the risers, unloading the photographer's equipment, and paying for the replacement prints for all the parents.
With these principles, you are in complete control of your parenting as you teach your children to be in control of their behavior. Works a whole lot better than utterly losing control of the situation as you struggle to control your children's behavior.
Things have been much calmer around here for the past few days.
1.11.2006
So considerate
Well, if he had to take off his diaper and pee all over the floor, at least he knew to do it in the kitchen.
Small mercies, small mercies.
Small mercies, small mercies.
1.09.2006
Spilled Milk
I thought maybe I could save the carpet by mandating that the boys are only to drink their milk in the kitchen.
I see now that I must also mandate that September is only to spit up in the kitchen.
I see now that I must also mandate that September is only to spit up in the kitchen.
1.07.2006
All the King's Horses
Nothing brings a mother running faster than the words "ball" and "uh-oh" in close proximation.
Especially if they've figured out how to get into the refrigerator.
1.06.2006
Advertising Unpacked
(yeah, we're unpacking all sorts of stuff around here...)
Last night Andy took the boys for doopahs around the mall while Tembo and I picked out some new curtains for our new house. While the current curtains are in far better condition (and far better taste, for that manner) than I ever would have expected for something so very, very paisley... well, they just aren’t quite my style.
After we got home (sadly, without curtains), Andy commented on the absurdity of the images surrounding Abercrombie and Fitch. How can models serve to advertise clothing when they aren’t actually wearing any?
I speculated that it was probably along the same lines as the ubiquitous beer ads featuring absurdly curvaceous bikini-clad women. “Wear our clothing and gorgeously buff nearly-naked men will immediately flock around you.”
But after a moment’s thought, the analogy broke down. No, that’s how car ads work. “Drive this vehicle, and you will be surrounded by women who look like this.”
Beer ads are different, though. With beer ads, it’s actually “Drink our beer and every woman you see will look like this.”
Last night Andy took the boys for doopahs around the mall while Tembo and I picked out some new curtains for our new house. While the current curtains are in far better condition (and far better taste, for that manner) than I ever would have expected for something so very, very paisley... well, they just aren’t quite my style.
After we got home (sadly, without curtains), Andy commented on the absurdity of the images surrounding Abercrombie and Fitch. How can models serve to advertise clothing when they aren’t actually wearing any?
I speculated that it was probably along the same lines as the ubiquitous beer ads featuring absurdly curvaceous bikini-clad women. “Wear our clothing and gorgeously buff nearly-naked men will immediately flock around you.”
But after a moment’s thought, the analogy broke down. No, that’s how car ads work. “Drive this vehicle, and you will be surrounded by women who look like this.”
Beer ads are different, though. With beer ads, it’s actually “Drink our beer and every woman you see will look like this.”
1.05.2006
Last night, we were friends.
This is not to say that we aren't usually friends--we are. Very much so.
But last night, after a rough day at work for him, a rough day at home for me, and nothing in the house for dinner, we drove to In-N-Out, and talked and talked and talked, far too late into the night.
We talked about frustration and exhaustion, and about how we don't want to move again for a very long time. Try as we might to avoid the subject, we even talked about money. But we didn't talk because we needed to know, because everything we do and everything we spend is twined together and interconnected. We talked because we needed the comeraderie.
We talked about long-range hopes and dreams, and tell me again why I became a teacher? But mostly we talked about Scotland, about the peat and the standing stones, the rocks and the waves and the solitude. Someday when we're old and grey and life is calmer...
And in that strange way that disparate moments have of folding back upon one another, we were suddenly back in the writing center conference room, perched on the table, covering the whiteboards with furious scribbles, pausing only to briefly realize that this is the one person with whom I want to spend my life...
...at school and in the Hebrides, and all the In-N-Out parking lots in between.
This is not to say that we aren't usually friends--we are. Very much so.
But last night, after a rough day at work for him, a rough day at home for me, and nothing in the house for dinner, we drove to In-N-Out, and talked and talked and talked, far too late into the night.
We talked about frustration and exhaustion, and about how we don't want to move again for a very long time. Try as we might to avoid the subject, we even talked about money. But we didn't talk because we needed to know, because everything we do and everything we spend is twined together and interconnected. We talked because we needed the comeraderie.
We talked about long-range hopes and dreams, and tell me again why I became a teacher? But mostly we talked about Scotland, about the peat and the standing stones, the rocks and the waves and the solitude. Someday when we're old and grey and life is calmer...
And in that strange way that disparate moments have of folding back upon one another, we were suddenly back in the writing center conference room, perched on the table, covering the whiteboards with furious scribbles, pausing only to briefly realize that this is the one person with whom I want to spend my life...
...at school and in the Hebrides, and all the In-N-Out parking lots in between.
1.04.2006
1.03.2006
Noisy Toys
There is an entire genre of toys which, when sufficiently poked, prodded, pinched, or squeezed, will immediately commence making quite an entertaining racket.
It is highly unfortunate that Mr. Meepo has discovered his sister to be in that category.
It is highly unfortunate that Mr. Meepo has discovered his sister to be in that category.
Shiftless
Er, at least I was.
It seems to be working again today.
I find it quite ironic that the shift keys on my computer start working again the moment start typing outhng a clever post about the lack of them.
I suppose the moral of the story is that if you leave your computer keyboard out in the rain, all may not, in fact, be entirely lost.
And don't judge people too harshly for posting with improper capitalization. It may not be laziness. It could be that they just never got around to bringing their keyboard in from the rain.
Er...
yeah.
It seems to be working again today.
I find it quite ironic that the shift keys on my computer start working again the moment start typing outhng a clever post about the lack of them.
I suppose the moral of the story is that if you leave your computer keyboard out in the rain, all may not, in fact, be entirely lost.
And don't judge people too harshly for posting with improper capitalization. It may not be laziness. It could be that they just never got around to bringing their keyboard in from the rain.
Er...
yeah.
1.02.2006
rainy day
THE day is cold, and dark, and dreary;
It rains,and the wind is never weary;
The vine still clings to the mouldering wall,
But at every gust the dead leaves fall,
And the day is dark and dreary.
My life is cold, and dark, and dreary;
It rains,and the wind is never weary;
My thoughts still cling to the mouldering past,
But the hopes of youth fall thick in the blast,
And the days are dark and dreary.
Be still, sad heart, and cease repining;
Behind the clouds is the sun still shining;
Thy fate is the common fate of all,
Into each life some rain must fall,
Some days must be dark and dreary.
---Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
It rains,and the wind is never weary;
The vine still clings to the mouldering wall,
But at every gust the dead leaves fall,
And the day is dark and dreary.
My life is cold, and dark, and dreary;
It rains,and the wind is never weary;
My thoughts still cling to the mouldering past,
But the hopes of youth fall thick in the blast,
And the days are dark and dreary.
Be still, sad heart, and cease repining;
Behind the clouds is the sun still shining;
Thy fate is the common fate of all,
Into each life some rain must fall,
Some days must be dark and dreary.
---Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
The last great laundry change hunt
wednesday was moving day. while andy and doug loaded up the truck, kathy and i ran around town doing sundry errands. the appliance dealer wanted cash, so while i was at the bank picking up money orders for the rent and security deposit, i also withdrew the exact amount we owed for the washing machine and drier. then we went over to little caeser's to pick up a pizza.
now, little caesar's is also a cash only sort of establishment, and i had in my wallet the exact amount we owed the appliance guy.
no problem. surely andy has 6.30 in his wallet. so i dipped into the laundry money to buy a pizza.
unfortunately, andy did not have 6.30 in his wallet.
and we had barely enough time to get to the appliance shop before they closed until the new year. certainly no time to backtrack to the bank.
and so it was that i found myself once again scrounging around the car looking for quarters for the washing mashine.
i thought there was a delightful sort of closure to that experience. but i was nevertheless glad to see a washington mutual a few blocks before we reached the shop.
especially since we were still 37 cents short.
now, little caesar's is also a cash only sort of establishment, and i had in my wallet the exact amount we owed the appliance guy.
no problem. surely andy has 6.30 in his wallet. so i dipped into the laundry money to buy a pizza.
unfortunately, andy did not have 6.30 in his wallet.
and we had barely enough time to get to the appliance shop before they closed until the new year. certainly no time to backtrack to the bank.
and so it was that i found myself once again scrounging around the car looking for quarters for the washing mashine.
i thought there was a delightful sort of closure to that experience. but i was nevertheless glad to see a washington mutual a few blocks before we reached the shop.
especially since we were still 37 cents short.
12.26.2005
A Very Merry Christmas
All in all, I do believe that the move rather enhanced our Christmas festivities. The massive pile of boxes became the Bethlehem hillsides once draped in blankets, and Christmas dinner was a smashing success, being prepared solely with disposable cookware. And that one dish that didn't make it into the box. Okay, okay, I confess. So I unpacked a single, measly saute pan. But still.
A traditional turkey dinner with all the fixings was quite out of the question. Moreover, leftovers are only a good thing if you are planning on leaving your refrigerator plugged in for the next week. So I went small and simple, but very special, and roasted us a filet mignon, with a rosemary and red wine marinade, and sauted shitake mushrooms.
And thus it is that I finally found I way that the wuggies will actually eat beef. Their eyes grew wide as they mawed on it enthusiastically and with great delight. I also discovered that they absolutely adore steamed green beans. And of course they loved the brown-and-serve rolls.
Put some candles on the table, and Meepo's in ecstasy. "Laight! Laight!"
Actually, though, what with the busyness of moving and all, the boys have been getting a special treat for dinner almost every night. Kraft mac 'n cheese, peanut butter sandwiches, chicken mcnuggets... filet mignon.
A traditional turkey dinner with all the fixings was quite out of the question. Moreover, leftovers are only a good thing if you are planning on leaving your refrigerator plugged in for the next week. So I went small and simple, but very special, and roasted us a filet mignon, with a rosemary and red wine marinade, and sauted shitake mushrooms.
And thus it is that I finally found I way that the wuggies will actually eat beef. Their eyes grew wide as they mawed on it enthusiastically and with great delight. I also discovered that they absolutely adore steamed green beans. And of course they loved the brown-and-serve rolls.
Put some candles on the table, and Meepo's in ecstasy. "Laight! Laight!"
Actually, though, what with the busyness of moving and all, the boys have been getting a special treat for dinner almost every night. Kraft mac 'n cheese, peanut butter sandwiches, chicken mcnuggets... filet mignon.
12.24.2005
Decking the Halls
No boughs of holly, though. Or mistletoe or pointsettas. Or even a Christmas tree for that matter. We are having a completely non-toxic, toddler-friendly Christmas.
On a tight budget, too, since in the midst of moving, there is little surplus money, and considerably less surplus time. I've had lights up for a while, but other than that, my Christmas decorating pretty much started yesterday, when it finally dawned on me that it was time to give up trying to go home for Christmas, and start bringing Christmas home to us.
Which means that I've had no choice but to make everything very simple and streamlined. Unable to carry out all the traditional particulars, I've been distilling them down to their essences. The results, in my opinion, are surprisingly elegant and festive.
A tree is the single most important element of Christmas decorating. When you have toddlers, it is also a recipe for lots and lots of stress. The tree fills two main functions. It provides a center around which the festivities can gather, and it fills the room with its pungent fragrance.
So I bought a kid-friendly stuffed manger scene, and set it up the pile of boxes. I draped the boxes with blankets. White on the lower level looks a bit like snow, and midnight blue on the upper level makes a glorious sky, especially when speckled with the starlight provided by a little battery operated mini-light set.
Of course the wuggies dismantle everything, but that's okay. We sit down and join them in playing with it, and then put it away. It's easy enough to set up, and take down, and set up again.
As far as the smell goes, I went down to the tree lot on the corner, and brought home a bunch of discarded branches. I've been fashioning them into really beautiful little arrangements with pinecones and ribbons. It smells really wonderful in here. There certainly isn't a whole tree's worth of greenery in here, but there really does seem to be a whole tree's worth of smell, since all the branches have been broken off, and are releasing their wonderfully fragrant sap.
And some wassail simmering in the crock-pot makes up for the fact that I'm not doing any holiday baking.
We'll go to the midnight mass tonight, and, depending on our level of exhaustion, gather around the manger scene when we get home, and open presents. I'm hoping that the disruption to our usual schedules will make it all very exciting and festive. Either that or grumpy. We'll see.
In any case, I'm very excited about instituting our own family's brand new Christmas traditions. And I think that the very spur-of-the-momentness of it is sparking a lot of creativity.
I still very much wish that I could be with my family right now, but this is good. Very good.
On a tight budget, too, since in the midst of moving, there is little surplus money, and considerably less surplus time. I've had lights up for a while, but other than that, my Christmas decorating pretty much started yesterday, when it finally dawned on me that it was time to give up trying to go home for Christmas, and start bringing Christmas home to us.
Which means that I've had no choice but to make everything very simple and streamlined. Unable to carry out all the traditional particulars, I've been distilling them down to their essences. The results, in my opinion, are surprisingly elegant and festive.
A tree is the single most important element of Christmas decorating. When you have toddlers, it is also a recipe for lots and lots of stress. The tree fills two main functions. It provides a center around which the festivities can gather, and it fills the room with its pungent fragrance.
So I bought a kid-friendly stuffed manger scene, and set it up the pile of boxes. I draped the boxes with blankets. White on the lower level looks a bit like snow, and midnight blue on the upper level makes a glorious sky, especially when speckled with the starlight provided by a little battery operated mini-light set.
Of course the wuggies dismantle everything, but that's okay. We sit down and join them in playing with it, and then put it away. It's easy enough to set up, and take down, and set up again.
As far as the smell goes, I went down to the tree lot on the corner, and brought home a bunch of discarded branches. I've been fashioning them into really beautiful little arrangements with pinecones and ribbons. It smells really wonderful in here. There certainly isn't a whole tree's worth of greenery in here, but there really does seem to be a whole tree's worth of smell, since all the branches have been broken off, and are releasing their wonderfully fragrant sap.
And some wassail simmering in the crock-pot makes up for the fact that I'm not doing any holiday baking.
We'll go to the midnight mass tonight, and, depending on our level of exhaustion, gather around the manger scene when we get home, and open presents. I'm hoping that the disruption to our usual schedules will make it all very exciting and festive. Either that or grumpy. We'll see.
In any case, I'm very excited about instituting our own family's brand new Christmas traditions. And I think that the very spur-of-the-momentness of it is sparking a lot of creativity.
I still very much wish that I could be with my family right now, but this is good. Very good.
12.23.2005
I'll be home for Christmas...
...but only in my dreams...
It just didn't happen. The packing isn't done, and we can't go to Arizona.
It will be quite the makeshift Christmas, with everything packed up... er... almost everything, almost packed up.
And yet somehow there is something very Christmassy about joyously making do, forming a landscape out of the piles of boxes to create a setting for the Christ child's manger.
It just didn't happen. The packing isn't done, and we can't go to Arizona.
It will be quite the makeshift Christmas, with everything packed up... er... almost everything, almost packed up.
And yet somehow there is something very Christmassy about joyously making do, forming a landscape out of the piles of boxes to create a setting for the Christ child's manger.
12.22.2005
Trekkies
We're not big TV people, but in times of great stress, Star Trek is our drug of choice. It requires almost no intellectual or emotional effort, and a quite minimal time investment, but still manages to be fun and intersting, and sparks fun conversations about archetypal roles and the nature of sentience. Pretty good for mindless entertainment.
Anyway, like I said, we're not big TV people in general, but over the last week or so, we've been watching a LOT. The folks at the video rental don't bother to ask for my phone number anymore, they just pull up our account when they see me and my pile of dusty VHS tapes. "Wow. You sure like Star Trek."
I found this rather disturbing. That's just not the sort of mother I want to be, known by name at the video store because she's constantly exposing her toddlers to lots of dreadfully non-interactive television.
My guilt heightened when I paused the tape to fix myself a cup of nice, hot, pear-flavored white tea. Nathan ran up to the blue screen and pointed up at it pleadingly.
"Mo! More book!"
I guess they'll be okay.
=)
Anyway, like I said, we're not big TV people in general, but over the last week or so, we've been watching a LOT. The folks at the video rental don't bother to ask for my phone number anymore, they just pull up our account when they see me and my pile of dusty VHS tapes. "Wow. You sure like Star Trek."
I found this rather disturbing. That's just not the sort of mother I want to be, known by name at the video store because she's constantly exposing her toddlers to lots of dreadfully non-interactive television.
My guilt heightened when I paused the tape to fix myself a cup of nice, hot, pear-flavored white tea. Nathan ran up to the blue screen and pointed up at it pleadingly.
"Mo! More book!"
I guess they'll be okay.
=)
Boys will be boys
When I was a little girl, I slept with Big Bear and my Cabbage Patch Tina Rosette.
Isaiah sleeps with his basketball.
Isaiah sleeps with his basketball.
12.20.2005
12.18.2005
12.16.2005
Feeling Blue
You may (or may not!) be surprised to learn that as a teenager, I contemplated dying my hair blue. Not out of any sort of adolescent rebellion, but because, hey, I look really good in blue.
But then an acquaintance (also naturally blond) dyed her hair blue. Sure enough, she was fabulously gorgeous... for the first week. Then it began to fade a bit, and looked pretty much horrendous for months thereafter. So I took this as an excellent opportunity to learn from someone else's mistakes, and aside from the occasional streaks of cerulean mascara, never actually acted upon this whim of mine.
Until this morning.
See, my hair was looking great, so I wasn't going to wash it. I just swept it up out of the way with a pen as I drew the bathwater.
That's right. A blue pen.
And I did wash my hair after all.
But then an acquaintance (also naturally blond) dyed her hair blue. Sure enough, she was fabulously gorgeous... for the first week. Then it began to fade a bit, and looked pretty much horrendous for months thereafter. So I took this as an excellent opportunity to learn from someone else's mistakes, and aside from the occasional streaks of cerulean mascara, never actually acted upon this whim of mine.
Until this morning.
See, my hair was looking great, so I wasn't going to wash it. I just swept it up out of the way with a pen as I drew the bathwater.
That's right. A blue pen.
And I did wash my hair after all.
12.15.2005
Looking on the bright side
Well, the good news is that we won't need to worry about packing up the microwave.
Pictures
Nate-bug always likes pointing out pictures of babies, but when he saw the picture of Rachel and HIS bay-bee, (Sharon, it should be waiting on your hotmail account when you next get out to the city) he was wildly ecstatic. "Bay-bee! Bay-bee Sept!" He would not allow me to close up the computer hutch until I'd printed him out a copy of his very own. He then held the picture up to Tembo herself, and kept pointing back and forth between them.
I tried to get a picture, but then he became interested in the camera, and all I ended up capturing was the fact that I really needed to vaccum. =)
I tried to get a picture, but then he became interested in the camera, and all I ended up capturing was the fact that I really needed to vaccum. =)
12.14.2005
Rachel and September. And the Mottling. You can't see him, but he made a great little seat for September. Tembo says that she's most definitely got the mommy touch.
Brotherly Love
As I was changing Isaiah's diaper, Nathan climbed up into September's chair and started kissing her vigorously. I rushed up as quickly as I could to rescue my poor baby.
When I pried Nathan away, I was not a bit surprised that he complained vociferously about being yanked away from his beloved Bay-bee.
I was a bit surprised, though, when Bay-bee burst into tears at being separated from her beloved brudder-wuggy.
Oh yes.
When I pried Nathan away, I was not a bit surprised that he complained vociferously about being yanked away from his beloved Bay-bee.
I was a bit surprised, though, when Bay-bee burst into tears at being separated from her beloved brudder-wuggy.
Oh yes.
An Adventure
The Tercel's gas meter hits the red empty line when the tank goes down to about half-full.
The one on the Doopah-mobile hits the red line shortly after sputtering to a halt.
Looking on the bright side, we now know for certain that we can go exactly 348.3 miles on a tank of gas.
The one on the Doopah-mobile hits the red line shortly after sputtering to a halt.
Looking on the bright side, we now know for certain that we can go exactly 348.3 miles on a tank of gas.
12.13.2005
12.12.2005
Lost
I'm in the middle of David Copperfield right now. It is amazing. For the most part, I've been listening to an outstanding recording performed by Patrick Tull. The man is an incredible actor, with a deep, rich voice that takes on a distinct quality for each character.
The only problem is that I seem to have accidentally skipped a tape. Or maybe just one side of a tape. In any case, it is now clear that an exceedingly important even has occured in the story... but I never actually heard about the event itself.
Rather than try to figure out which tape I missed, I started flipping through our paper copy, trying to find the scene.
There was only one problem. I couldn't find the spot I was looking for, because on every page I turned to, I found a scene that I simply could not pass without rereading.
It's just that good.
right now. It is amazing. For the most part, I've been listening to an outstanding recording performed by Patrick Tull. The man is an incredible actor, with a deep, rich voice that takes on a distinct quality for each character. The only problem is that I seem to have accidentally skipped a tape. Or maybe just one side of a tape. In any case, it is now clear that an exceedingly important even has occured in the story... but I never actually heard about the event itself.
Rather than try to figure out which tape I missed, I started flipping through our paper copy, trying to find the scene.
There was only one problem. I couldn't find the spot I was looking for, because on every page I turned to, I found a scene that I simply could not pass without rereading.
It's just that good.
12.11.2005
12.10.2005
Home, Sweet Home
Well, I think we found it. A tiny two-bedroom single-wide mobile home, 10 minutes from church. Nothing fancy... but exceedingly cute. The bedrooms are tiny. It'll be quite a squeeze, but I think we can do it. What really matters is the kitchen... and the kitchen is absolutely perfect. Spacious and well-planned, with room for a table and chairs. The manager was a bit apologetic that it didn't have a separate dining room, but we see that as a good thing. When you have toddlers, eating over carpeting is just a really bad idea. I am really looking forward to cooking in a kitchen that makes sense. You know, one with counters. And cupboards that you can access without excessive contortion. Speaking of cupboards, as an added bonus, the adorable oak cupboards make it feel so home-ey.
The park is cute... clean and pleasant and full of families.
We have a little patch of grass on which to put a climbing aparatus for the wuggies, and a little patch of gravel that we could turn into a garden.
And...
... laundry hookups!!!
I am so excited about this place. All of these things are going to make such a big difference in our lives. Kitchen. Laundry. Flowers. And best of all, we'll live close enough to really get involved in our wonderful church family.
Thank you, Jesus.
The park is cute... clean and pleasant and full of families.
We have a little patch of grass on which to put a climbing aparatus for the wuggies, and a little patch of gravel that we could turn into a garden.
And...
... laundry hookups!!!
I am so excited about this place. All of these things are going to make such a big difference in our lives. Kitchen. Laundry. Flowers. And best of all, we'll live close enough to really get involved in our wonderful church family.
Thank you, Jesus.
12.09.2005
Shhh!
I just found myself taking away an orange, explaining that it wasn't a ball. I then replaced it with a foam block, explaining that the little cube actually was a ball.
They'll never learn their shapes at this rate.
Please don't tell their geometer of a father.
They'll never learn their shapes at this rate.
Please don't tell their geometer of a father.
Shopping
The good news:
We found the townhouse apartment of our dreams, and I am quite cured of all desire for a single-family dwelling.
The bad news:
The rent is $500 beyond our budget.
We found the townhouse apartment of our dreams, and I am quite cured of all desire for a single-family dwelling.
The bad news:
The rent is $500 beyond our budget.
12.08.2005
Wasting Thyme
The other day, our apartment smelled like cinnamon once more, but this time it wasn't Mr. Wuggidy's doing, but mine, thanks to a big bag of beautifully fragranced pine cones. I haven't gotten around to actually doing any decorating with them, but they still smell lovely, even in the bag.
Last night however, let's just say I found the wuggies with too much thyme on their hands.
Now it smells like... um... mixed spices.
Last night however, let's just say I found the wuggies with too much thyme on their hands.
Now it smells like... um... mixed spices.
12.07.2005
Interior Design
I love candles... but of course, you can't light candles anywhere a toddler might get at them. Which leaves sconces as our only option. I've been on the lookout ever since the wuggies became mobile, but alas, I could only find things that were either hideous or way out of our budget. Usually both. But the other day, I was delighted to find some quite tasteful wall sconces at Big Lots... $2.99 for a box of 2!
So we've been spending our evenings in the light of candles and christmas lights. The wuggies are even more delighted than I am, which, quite frankly, I would have thought impossible. They are forever pointing, and squealing, "Laigh! Laigh!"
I've put up three candle holders so far, but haven't found the right spot for the fourth.
This morning, however, I found the wuggies with the remaining sconce, carefully holding it up against the wall, examining it and conferring about the best place to hang it.
They really do seem to have a good eye for placement. That would have been a lovely spot.
Except that hanging it where the wuggies could get at it would have rather defeated the purpose.
Advent!
The other day, Andy gave me an early Christmas present.
Glad: An Acapella Christmas
It's out of print (er... out of dub? Out of burn?) but he found me a used copy on Amazon.
Suddenly it very much feels like Advent around here.
I can remember the year that Uncle Jim and Aunt Cindy gave us this album, sometime around junior high, or early high school. So I know it wasn't actually a part of all my childhood Christmasses... but it nevertheless forms the soundtrack for all my Christmas memories. The music captures like no other the essence of what Christmas means to me.
The life of the Church tends to center around Easter, but it was Christmas that was at the heart of our spiritual life as a family. The incarnation, cruxifiction, and resurrection of the God-Man is one inextricably united mystery. You cannot remember one part without pondering the whole... and the whole was most clearly before us at Christmastime, as we tried to wrap our minds around the helpless infant who was God Almighty, the unwed teen mother who was the chosen vessel for the Salvation of the world, and the birth that was heralded by angelic choirs... but no room in the inn.
Glad's soaring vocal harmonies are filled with a rich and free reverence, unconstrainedly flowing from a deep awe at deeper mysteries. Filled with parallel fifths and deceptive cadences, their unexpected harmonic interperetations of familiar melodies sound almost medieval, but the intricate rhythms are thoroughly modern. Their music is a glorious fusion of the old and the new, high art and low---uniquely fitting for remembrance of the God who came down and clothed himself in human flesh.
Glad: An Acapella Christmas
It's out of print (er... out of dub? Out of burn?) but he found me a used copy on Amazon
.Suddenly it very much feels like Advent around here.
I can remember the year that Uncle Jim and Aunt Cindy gave us this album, sometime around junior high, or early high school. So I know it wasn't actually a part of all my childhood Christmasses... but it nevertheless forms the soundtrack for all my Christmas memories. The music captures like no other the essence of what Christmas means to me.
The life of the Church tends to center around Easter, but it was Christmas that was at the heart of our spiritual life as a family. The incarnation, cruxifiction, and resurrection of the God-Man is one inextricably united mystery. You cannot remember one part without pondering the whole... and the whole was most clearly before us at Christmastime, as we tried to wrap our minds around the helpless infant who was God Almighty, the unwed teen mother who was the chosen vessel for the Salvation of the world, and the birth that was heralded by angelic choirs... but no room in the inn.
Glad's soaring vocal harmonies are filled with a rich and free reverence, unconstrainedly flowing from a deep awe at deeper mysteries. Filled with parallel fifths and deceptive cadences, their unexpected harmonic interperetations of familiar melodies sound almost medieval, but the intricate rhythms are thoroughly modern. Their music is a glorious fusion of the old and the new, high art and low---uniquely fitting for remembrance of the God who came down and clothed himself in human flesh.
12.05.2005
Who among you, when your son asks for bread, would give him a stone?
No. Most certainly not.
I would, however, have given them a nice soft foam ball.
They didn't bother to ask, though, so now the entire loaf of stone-ground whole wheat bread is strewn across the floor.
Between Tembo's undeveloped digestive system, and her big brothers' well-developed throwing arms... well, either way, when food becomes projectiles, it's not a pretty sight.
I tell you... we're having a ball.
I would, however, have given them a nice soft foam ball.
They didn't bother to ask, though, so now the entire loaf of stone-ground whole wheat bread is strewn across the floor.
Between Tembo's undeveloped digestive system, and her big brothers' well-developed throwing arms... well, either way, when food becomes projectiles, it's not a pretty sight.
I tell you... we're having a ball.
Let's hear it for "The Wiggy Chronicles!"
I guess one of the hazards of making up your own words is that people are unlikely to spell them properly. Ah, well. At least I'm doing my part to keep the English language alive and well.
In any case, misspellings aside, I'm quite honored to be listed among the finalists for Best Parenting Blog over at the Weblog Awards.
So show your support for your favorite wiggy wuggies, and cast a vote for "The Wiggy Chronicles."
Whenever they manage to get the polls working, that is.
In any case, misspellings aside, I'm quite honored to be listed among the finalists for Best Parenting Blog over at the Weblog Awards.
So show your support for your favorite wiggy wuggies, and cast a vote for "The Wiggy Chronicles."
Whenever they manage to get the polls working, that is.
12.03.2005
Onions
Not many kids get excited over onions, but our little wuggies were ecstatic when they saw the lovely white orbs as I unloaded the groceries.
"Balls!"
"Balls!"
Advent!
The other day, Andy gave me an early Christmas present.
Glad: An Acapella Christmas
It's out of print (er... out of dub? Out of burn?) but he found me a used copy on Amazon.
Suddenly it very much feels like Advent around here.
I can remember the year that Uncle Jim and Aunt Cindy gave us this album, sometime around junior high, or early high school. So I know it wasn't actually a part of all my childhood Christmasses... but it nevertheless forms the soundtrack for all my Christmas memories. The music captures like no other the essence of what Christmas means to me.
The life of the Church tends to center around Easter, but it was Christmas that was really at the heart of our spiritual life as a family. The incarnation, cruxifiction, and resurrection of the God-Man is one inextricably united mystery. You cannot remember one part without pondering the whole... and the whole was most clearly before us at Christmastime, as we tried to wrap our minds around the helpless infant who was God Almighty, the unwed teen mother who was the chosen vessel for the Salvation of the world, the birth that was heralded by angelic choirs... but no room in the inn.
Glad's soaring vocal harmonies are filled with a rich and free reverence, unconstrainedly flowing from a deep awe at deeper mysteries. Filled with parallel fifths and deceptive cadences, their unexpected harmonic interperetations of familiar melodies sound almost medieval, but the intricate rhythms are thoroughly modern. Their music is a glorious fusion of high art and low---uniquely fitting for remembrance of the God who came down and clothed himself in human flesh.
Glad: An Acapella Christmas
It's out of print (er... out of dub? Out of burn?) but he found me a used copy on Amazon.
Suddenly it very much feels like Advent around here.
I can remember the year that Uncle Jim and Aunt Cindy gave us this album, sometime around junior high, or early high school. So I know it wasn't actually a part of all my childhood Christmasses... but it nevertheless forms the soundtrack for all my Christmas memories. The music captures like no other the essence of what Christmas means to me.
The life of the Church tends to center around Easter, but it was Christmas that was really at the heart of our spiritual life as a family. The incarnation, cruxifiction, and resurrection of the God-Man is one inextricably united mystery. You cannot remember one part without pondering the whole... and the whole was most clearly before us at Christmastime, as we tried to wrap our minds around the helpless infant who was God Almighty, the unwed teen mother who was the chosen vessel for the Salvation of the world, the birth that was heralded by angelic choirs... but no room in the inn.
Glad's soaring vocal harmonies are filled with a rich and free reverence, unconstrainedly flowing from a deep awe at deeper mysteries. Filled with parallel fifths and deceptive cadences, their unexpected harmonic interperetations of familiar melodies sound almost medieval, but the intricate rhythms are thoroughly modern. Their music is a glorious fusion of high art and low---uniquely fitting for remembrance of the God who came down and clothed himself in human flesh.
12.02.2005
Muncha! Muncha! Muncha!
Yes, it's true. I buy my children breakfast cereal based on the toys that come in the box.
Er... well... at least when Cheerios stuffs their boxes with cheaply bound editions of fantastic children's picture books.
Contrary to my first impression, Muncha! Muncha! Muncha! is not a vehicle for Cheerios ads, but rather is a gem of a book, with a new twist on the familiar theme of the gardener vs. the bunnies.
The wuggies love it, but I think I get even more excited over it than they do. The musician in me delights in its form and structure. Lots of repetition, growing in complexity with each iteration, and vast variety in the creative references to those flop-eared puff-tails. An exquisite balance of simplicity and complexity, unity and diversity. Not to mention the delightful onomonopoea, always a wonderful thing, and especially at this age.
All in all, a fantastic book... one which I will most definitely replace when the boys inevitably destroy this copy.
Tippy, tippy, tippy, pat....
Muncha! Muncha! Muncha!
Er... well... at least when Cheerios stuffs their boxes with cheaply bound editions of fantastic children's picture books.
Contrary to my first impression, Muncha! Muncha! Muncha!
is not a vehicle for Cheerios ads, but rather is a gem of a book, with a new twist on the familiar theme of the gardener vs. the bunnies.The wuggies love it, but I think I get even more excited over it than they do. The musician in me delights in its form and structure. Lots of repetition, growing in complexity with each iteration, and vast variety in the creative references to those flop-eared puff-tails. An exquisite balance of simplicity and complexity, unity and diversity. Not to mention the delightful onomonopoea, always a wonderful thing, and especially at this age.
All in all, a fantastic book... one which I will most definitely replace when the boys inevitably destroy this copy.
Tippy, tippy, tippy, pat....
Muncha! Muncha! Muncha!
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